How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

I have tried what seems like everything. We live together, and we have 2 very large dogs. We also have a 3, and 6 year old over every other weekend and Wednesday and Thursday.

I have tried everything, bribing him with sex etc. Nothing helps except me cleaning up all his messes. He is a great cook, but I wish he wouldn’t bother our kitchen gets so bad. Any ideas?
Also we have had that, "I can’t stand this mess anymore" talk several times.

leave his messes. It sucks but leave them. No words or anger needed. Just leave his stuff. Do not wash his clothes, do any dishes he ate out of, pick up his newspapers, stinky socks, raunchy unders, his coat, nothing. Leave all of it.
When he says anything, and he will, smile and say, "well, I thought you were adult enough to clean up after yourself."
Do not shout, yell, scream or anything. Also, smile even if it feels like its gonna kill you. He cannot function without clean clothes or dishes, etc. He will either offer to help or do it himself.
IF he still refuses, dump this sucker because your time and life is worth more than living with a slob for ever who is NOT adult enough to take care of himself and help you take care of the home you are building. This will bleed over into other areas of your life.
He is disrespecting you and the home you are trying to build.

My boyfriend gets really defensive if anyone makes a comment about his height compared to me. I am about 5’10" and he is 5’8". I love him and he is my guy. He is a huge weightlifter and does ultimate fighting stuff so is not afraid of anyone. But he has an anger problem. Tonight at a party some tall guy said he was too short for me and he just went off and beat the guy silly. I guess the other guy ended up with a concussion.

How can I get my boyfriend to control his anger?

Hey. I had a boyfriend with a similar problem, he wasnt a body builder or anything, but his anger was a big problem. When we fought he would break things and take on an almost completely different person. What worked for us, when he blew at me, was putting out the flame basically. If he yelled at me, I’d try to keep myself composed and kill the anger. For instance. He says: "Shut up! I never said that, this is your fault!" Instead of saying something in retaliation, say something like. "Ok.." Make is solemn and kinda defeated. Even if your acting, He’ll feel bad, and want to comfort you. Angry people are usually protective and soft inside.
With other people, no matter what he says don’t yell at him. Try to touch his arm or something comforting to bring him to reality. When someone snaps, they aren’t thinking clearly. Be gentle with him, and try to boost his ‘ego.’ the anger is possibly to make up for what he thinks is a short comming. and weight lifting is great for him to let go of some of the anger!

hope i was of some help ^_^