How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

Ok so I am still in love with my ex boyfriend and he told me that he loves me but he doesn’t want a commitment I always heard never let the one you love slip away how do I get him back? And don’t say just move on cause I know we were meant to be. And do you believe that it’s true to never let the one you love to slip away.

If you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.

Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop!

You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.

During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him.

Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don’t over do it) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top.

I met this guy at university and he added me as a friend on facebook and then we started IMing….for about three weeks we IMed every day for up to 5 hours and we would text constantly little flirty sometimes naughty things….

so he asks me out for coffee and the first couple of times he kept trying to kiss me and i backed away because i thought it was too good to be true.

So after about 2 months of flirting….stuff starts to heat up and we start talking about what we would do to each other and stuff….. then i ask the question if were dating or not and well he says he wasnt ready…

cut a long story short i told him i was jealous of this chick that seems to always hang out with his mates and him…. he said she wasnt attractive and that i was and i shouldnt be jealous…..

so i ask him if hes ready and he said that he gave up on me being his girlfriend when i kept rejecting his kisses…..i know its my fault….we didnt talk for like a week and a half

lately we’ve been joking around again like when we first started to hang out and sending kinky messages through out the day……

then last night we were just being stupid and he said i so want to go to sleep so i said in my bed and he was like yeah sure why not…..after about an hour he says dont take it in the wrong way but right now i want you….i said i never thought i had that effect on him….we said a few kinky things and then i went to bed.

so what i want to know is how do i get in the girlfriend zone again?
does he like me more than a friend?
should i just kiss him the next time i see him?
and what is he playin at?

thankyou im so sorry its so long
may i note we have never had sex or been intimate in any way

come on, your a booty call, the dude is not gonna buy the cow when the cow begs him to take the milk for free…