My boyfriend and I just broke up a little over a month ago. We went out for a long time and we fought a lot. Even though we fought, I still love him. A month after we broke up, he got a new girlfriend. She lives states away and she doesn’t seem like she actually likes him. I feel almost incomplete without him. How do I get him to realize I love him and show him how sorry I am? I need him back.
This is how I always think when it comes to situations like this: "I really want you, but I want what’s best for you and what you want. I want you to be with me for you. If you don’t want to be around, I don’t want you around. If you are around and don’t love me, that’s not fair to me and it’s a one-sided relationship."
But if you absolutely can’t live without him and its true love, then send him a message saying that you still care. Tell him you want to work things out because he treated you better than anyone has ever treated you. Tell him that you will give him time to think about it and you don’t have to get back together if you don’t want to. Tell him you want think to be how they used to be.
You don’t want to just nag and want him back if he doesn’t care for you. That’s not fair and will allow him to walk all over you. If my suggestion above didn’t work, Give him space for a while. It will be hard. Yes, it will hurt like hell. But just try it out. Give yourself some alone time. See if you are even interested in other guys. If you still want him, just start talking to him and being a "friend" to him. Then get closer and flirt. Flirt more and just start hinting to him you have feelings. When you know he has feelings for you, tell him how you feel.
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