how do i get my girlfriend back without threatening suicide upon myself?

Posted in How to get my girlfriend back by Admin on March 21, 2010 8 Comments

I’ve cheated on my girlfriend and now she wont come back..how can i get her to come back to me and be happy without committing suicide?how can i talk to her without yelling and screaming at her and get her to come back? please help me, i am very suicidal and i need your guys help

You screwed up. Don’t take it out on her.

People who threaten suicide to keep a partner are abusive. You can’t hold her hostage. It’s not her fault you cheated. If you really wanted to be with her, you wouldn’t have.

There’s nothing you can do but wait and hope. But stop threatening suicide. The end of your high school romance is not the end of the world. Learn a lesson and move on.

How do you get your ex back?

Posted in How to get ex back by Admin on February 17, 2010 17 Comments

Ok you have an ex boyfriend who just broke up with you. You want to get him back, not get over him. You really love him. You need to show him you love him. How do you do that?
the only reason he broke up with you is because he thinks you dont care about him as much.

First, you are going to want to ask yourself four vital questions. These are really important questions when it comes to figuring out how to get your ex boyfriend back.

- Is the matter that caused the breakup actually important enough to warrant the attention it is getting?

- Is it even really appropriate to argue about this matter right now?

- Can anything be changed or made different by prevailing in the argument or is it more worthwhile to just nip the argument in the bud and move on?

- Is the issue even worth arguing about in the first place?

If you answer no to any of the aforementioned questions, then stop pressing the matter and let it slide. Many break ups can be prevented or quickly rekindled if a large argument is settled. Surprisingly enough, many breakup inducing argument are really completely unnecessary, and could be cast aside if only the parties involved could let the tension slide and move on.

The next step to learning how to get your ex boyfriend back is to stop fretting so hard about how you are being perceived. It really does not matter if people think you are funny or too serious, fat or too thin, stupid or intelligent. You want to let go on these concerns so that you can finally be yourself and let your behavior flow. This way, people like your ex boyfriend will perceive you for who you actually are, rather than who you are trying to be.

Emotionally and mentally distancing yourself from your ex is an important step in learning how to get your ex boyfriend back. While this may seem counterintuitive, it is actually important to take yourself out of the situation mentally, removing the stress associated with the break up. When you are feeling more calmed and relaxed, and he is feeling the same, this is when true resolution can finally become a part of the dialogue between the two of you. A little bit of distance never hurt anyone. It’s important to stay in contact and maintain positive conversation and communication, but take the emotions out of the situation if you want to survive the conversation.

Once your head is clear, and his head is clear, this is when the situation can be truly analyzed for what it is. When you and your ex are no longer feeling so hot headed about the issue that led to the breakup, this is when you can sit down together and communicate through a solution.

Most breakups can be easily undone if you and your ex boyfriend can simply find the patience and civility to talk things through, so this should be your primary goal if you want to rekindle the flame with an ex significant other that you care significantly for.

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