How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

My ex girlfriend and I were goin out for 5months til she broke up with me because she said she it wasn’t working out for us and that she thought she’d have a better chance with another guy. We’re still pretty good friends now and I really want to get her back. What should I do to get her back?

Listen. First of all, you’re still friends with her. That automatically puts her off. She’s trying to find someone new, and she knows you’re still hanging around waiting for her to fall back in your lap. Ain’t happening, son. It’s needy and sad.

If you want to get her back, you need to learn some proper advice from proper men – forget all this ‘just be her friend and she might come around’ crap. She’ll only ever come around to cry on your shoulder about her new, more exciting boyfriend. If you don’t like that, then, you can’t be her friend – simple as that.

It’s done, and you really have a snowball in hells chance of rekindling this relationship. To be honest, the best chance you have is to stop hanging around, and just stop talking to her – as a friend, or otherwise, and get on with your life and get a new girlfriend. If your ex smells the coffee and comes around later, you can re-evaluate how you feel then, or tell her where to go.

My boyfriend and I just broke up a little over a month ago. We went out for a long time and we fought a lot. Even though we fought, I still love him. A month after we broke up, he got a new girlfriend. She lives states away and she doesn’t seem like she actually likes him. I feel almost incomplete without him. How do I get him to realize I love him and show him how sorry I am? I need him back.

This is how I always think when it comes to situations like this: "I really want you, but I want what’s best for you and what you want. I want you to be with me for you. If you don’t want to be around, I don’t want you around. If you are around and don’t love me, that’s not fair to me and it’s a one-sided relationship."

But if you absolutely can’t live without him and its true love, then send him a message saying that you still care. Tell him you want to work things out because he treated you better than anyone has ever treated you. Tell him that you will give him time to think about it and you don’t have to get back together if you don’t want to. Tell him you want think to be how they used to be.

You don’t want to just nag and want him back if he doesn’t care for you. That’s not fair and will allow him to walk all over you. If my suggestion above didn’t work, Give him space for a while. It will be hard. Yes, it will hurt like hell. But just try it out. Give yourself some alone time. See if you are even interested in other guys. If you still want him, just start talking to him and being a "friend" to him. Then get closer and flirt. Flirt more and just start hinting to him you have feelings. When you know he has feelings for you, tell him how you feel.

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