How can i get my boyfriend back?
Ok so i was in a relationship for 2yrs. but at one point in the relationship i started talking to this other guy and i invited him over to my house we stood outside the whole time we didnt do anything but i felt guilty about it so i told my boyfriend and he broke up with me now i want him back and i just don’t knw how to get him… what should i do what should i say, can someone help me?
I know how you feel. I’ve been in that situation too. If its still bothering you, you should go to him, or call him immediatley as soon as you can. Tell him that you are sorry, tell him that he is the only one that there is , and the only man that you will ever need and want. Try to tell him how things actually happened, and that nothing happened. Tell him, to give you one more chance because you love him, and you care. If he starts yelling or saying mean stuff,,,, its okay because he is upset. Be calm and try to understand how he feels. Because what if he did that to you. The best thing to do, is to get together with him. Or call him,,,, leave him a message saying that you are sorry, and that you didnt mean for things to be like that. If he loves you,and if he will want you back, he will forgive you. It takes time to get over those kinds of things. Just give him more attention, tell him you love him no matter what happens. tell him that you care, and that you will try not to do it. And what is really important is that you didnt hide it behind his back. Tell him you told him because you love him, and that you are not a stupid bitch like that. Tell him, that you would never cheat on him, and the only thing that happened with that guy is that you guys talked. if that doesnt work, let me know. Just understand how he feels. What if he did that to you…. Just explain your feelings out, its okay even if you cry. Because if he loves you, he will hug you. And if you really want him back, promise him not to do anything like that.
My boyfriend and I just broke up a little over a month ago. We went out for a long time and we fought a lot. Even though we fought, I still love him. A month after we broke up, he got a new girlfriend. She lives states away and she doesn’t seem like she actually likes him. I feel almost incomplete without him. How do I get him to realize I love him and show him how sorry I am? I need him back.
This is how I always think when it comes to situations like this: "I really want you, but I want what’s best for you and what you want. I want you to be with me for you. If you don’t want to be around, I don’t want you around. If you are around and don’t love me, that’s not fair to me and it’s a one-sided relationship."
But if you absolutely can’t live without him and its true love, then send him a message saying that you still care. Tell him you want to work things out because he treated you better than anyone has ever treated you. Tell him that you will give him time to think about it and you don’t have to get back together if you don’t want to. Tell him you want think to be how they used to be.
You don’t want to just nag and want him back if he doesn’t care for you. That’s not fair and will allow him to walk all over you. If my suggestion above didn’t work, Give him space for a while. It will be hard. Yes, it will hurt like hell. But just try it out. Give yourself some alone time. See if you are even interested in other guys. If you still want him, just start talking to him and being a "friend" to him. Then get closer and flirt. Flirt more and just start hinting to him you have feelings. When you know he has feelings for you, tell him how you feel.
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