How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

Ok so basically I met my now ex gf 6 months ago we went out for three weeks and were intimate and it basically led to
me dumping her because my parents found out. I know she was really hurt by it and cried for a long time. Anyways like a week ago I texted her and explained a lot of stuff and me and her are cool now except for she has a bf. I really think she still likes me but has a bf. She knows damn well I like her but it’s almost like she is playing a game with me. She always texts me and we talk a lot like 1500 texts in the past week. So I really wanna know if I shld keep texting her a lot so she knows I’m into her or if i shld slowly start texting her less to make her come get me if she really likes me. Thanks a lot I apprecate it.

Hi buddy

Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Don’t Be Jealous

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

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all the best

I want us to talk and try and rekindle things. i want my ex back
how can i do this.

Hey there,
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you need to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s important.

7 Tips To Get Back With Ex

1. So sit down on your own and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t harass yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can effect.

2. Whichever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be amazed at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!

3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, especially if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you have to do this.

4. You might learn later that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.

5. If your mistakes originated in you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be beneficial.

6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral due to the fact that then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.

7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.

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All the best!