I want to know how to win my ex-boyfriend back over time. I broke up with him and regretted it but now its too late to do anything. Its still a little awkward between us, but we’re more or less friends. I miss him and I want him back. I have a friend who tells me that there isn’t really any hope between me and him. I listened to her and gave up on wanting him back, but some part of me still wants him so badly. I can’t get over him. He says he’s not ready to have a girlfriend at the moment and my friend said that when she talked to him she thought it was more of an infatuation with me versus the love part. I want a chance to do things right, because I screwed up. She says I blew things out of proportion of what he said and he didn’t really know what was going on because I took things a bit too far. Is this all a lost hope? What do I do to win him back?
My personal advice, please don’t try to win him back. From a guy’s prospective, you can go from sweet girl trying to win my heart back to annoying, crazy girl who is stalking me, really fast. So your best bet is to let it go. He is much more likely to want you back if he thinks he can’t have you back. So if you can’t possibly live without him then you need to put some distance between you and him for now and let things be.
Otherwise I would recommend moving on. I know it feels like you have time invested in this relationship that is hard to just get rid of, but sometimes you just have to take what you learned from this and apply it in your next relationship.
Good luck and email me for anything more.
My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, and I still love him and really want to be with him. The problem is that he doesn’t want to be with me right now. He says it’s because he doesn’t feel anything, and all he ever feels is sad, angry, or excited; he’s never really happy. I’m not sure if it’s because we’ve been spending so much time together, but I do tend to be controlling so that might be it, too. Anyway, any advice on how to win him back?
You cant at the moment just give him space for a while and then try again. Absense makes the heart grow fonder 
hope it works out
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