My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In our 2 years nothing much has happened except for hugging,, kissing and holding hands. I am her first boyfriend. Her parents are really strict so they made sure I was the right choice. But now I feel that I want more passion in our relationship. I really want to have sex with her. But at the same time, I don’t want to be the only one enjoying it, I want her to enjoy too. In other words, I don’t want it to seem that I am raping her. I was thinking about asking her to come to my apartment one night and we’d have dinner and I’d let her drink a lot of alcohol so then she’d get drunk then I would make my move, but I think I’d be raping her. I’ve had a few girlfriends but she’s probably the best I’ve had, she really cares and the way she loves me is unconditional. Probably it’s because I’m her first. I know that she’s a virgin also. I want to have sex but do you think she’ll get mad??? Please help!
If you get her drunk and then have sex with her, yes, she probably will get mad. She is your girlfriend, and you should be able to have sex with her without getting her drunk. You need to talk to her and work thorugh your feelings with her. It’s actually quite likely that she wants to have sex with you too, but she’s just waiting for you to make the first move. Generally the guy is the one to make the first move, and so she’s probably just waiting for you.
Next time you are are kissing or making out, just slowly start to work your hands up under her shirt. Then just take things further, as far as you both want to go. Talk to each other and communicate, its the most important thing in a relationship! Goodluck with it all! 
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