How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

Well, this is like my 6th girlfriend or so and she broke up with me. She said that I fingered her too much and that I didn’t really care about her. I need to know what to do and how to get her back.

Hey Austin,

The best way to get a woman back is to accept the breakup and give her the space she needs. You need to create space to give her time to miss you. If you try to push your way back into the relationship, you will only end up pushing her away for good. If she’s truly done with the relationship, then you need to be willing to move on.

The problem is most guys make the same mistakes after a breakup. They beg, plead, apologize, call, text, email, and do all sorts of things that make them look needy, desperate, and ultimately unattractive in a woman’s eyes.

If you remain confident, go about your daily life like you are going to be ok with or without her, then you’ll send her all the right messages. By breaking off contact you give her a chance to miss you and chances are she’ll come back to you.

If she does come back, then do your best to make her feel loved and appreciated. Women need APPRECIATION more than anything in a relationship. If she only feels like you want her for sex or to "finger her", then she isn’t going to stick around.

I’ve put an excellent resource down below that can give you some additional insights. Hope that helps.

We dated for almost three years, and recently she said she was confused and wanted time to think. We fought alot during our relationship, but things had been getting better and we always had a very loving bond. I wasn’t always able to be there for her, and I think she resents me for that. How can I approach getting her back? I am afraid if I leave her alone too long, she will fall out of love with me.

okay, I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but you honestly shouldn’t try.