I’m 16 and a junior in high school and so is she. We dated for ten months and didi everything together. I’ve met pretty much all of her extended family and they all loved me. They’ve even made her invite me over when they visited. I went to the shore with her family and golfig with just her dad and my family was invited to Disney world with her family. I thought everythig was going perfect till a couple of my friends (guys) asked me to go to a dance with them. At first I said no and told her about it and she agreed that I shouldn’t go. Then another dance came up and she had to go to a party and told me I should go to the dance. So I did but I only danced with girls as a wingman an I told my gf that. She seemed fine with it. Later on she brought it up again and we argued about it and I called her a whore without thinking and immeditly apologized. She was ok with it and we moved on. About a week later we hung out and everything seemed perfect. Then she texted me and said we needed to talk and broke up with me,saying she doesn’t feel the same anymore but maybe in the future we can get back together ad she still wants to be friends. That was 4weeks ago and I’ve gone thru periods of being ok with it and periods of wanting her back. Now I really want her back cuz I think we would both be happy but I don’t know how to go about it.
Now on of my best friends wants to date her
Hey
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back soon as possible I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back.
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all the best
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