I separated from my husband at the beginning of the year after a 10 yr marriage. He had been having an affair for the last 3 years and towards the end of the marriage, after I found out about the affair, we had an argument that ended in him being charged with assault, he had attacked me. Never a violent man before. Since he left he has been very controlling and both emotionally and financially abusive towards me. I’ve since met a man who lives in Brisbane and want to know how I can legally move to be with him with my children. The law states that I can’t move more than 200km from my ex husband so that he can see his children and if I do move I run the risk of him involving lawyers and authorities to get the kids back…fees I can’t afford and I don’t want to risk losing the children to him. The kids are 3 and 6. Our parenting orders have yet to be made legal. I just want him to be out of our lives. It doesn’t seem fair that after all this abuse and an affair, me and the children have to still be under his control. Also, my ex husband is a financial director and I am a housewife who now has to find a job (after years of supporting his career) and find an income that can provide a good life for my children because their father will not give us more than he has to. What should I do? What can I do?
you have children together so he will always be in your life but you can take control so he knows next to nothing about your life, he will have to know the basics your address and contact number but that’s where it ends as a ex he doesn’t need to know anything else about your life. your personal life is just that until the children become involved with Your new partner. if the children are young you could go on benefits for a while or look for suitable work that fits around their lives good luck xx
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