How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

My ex and I started dating my junior year in highschool all the way up until I was a freshman in college. We were sooooo in love, and no one ever thought we would be apart. But things changed when we went away to school. I went away, and so did he. Things just became a complete mess. We used to spend everyday hanging out with each other and spend most nights with each other as well. Then when we went away it was so hard to see each other (only some weekends). Well he ended up breaking up with me on our 2 in a half years, because he said it didnt feel the same anymore. That day i specifically remember him saying he thinks he might have made the biggest mistake of his life. But of course i kept calling him and texting him constantly and it just pushed him further away. It got to the point where he completely ignored me.

Well now its been 9 months since we broke up. I stopped texting and calling him as much, maybe text him like twice a week. We meet each other like once a week to just "mess around" (after all he was my first) He hugs me everytime we leave too. I feel like the sparks are still there but at the same time i dont know because when i text him to meet me he will ignore me most of the time, sometimes he will be like "im busy sry" if he cant, but sometime he just wont answer. But when he asks me to meet him i always text back. When we see each other at parties its like we dont even no each other, MAYBE a hi but thats it. Sometime i feel like he doesnt want anyone knowing we talk because ppl will think he likes me again…I tell him i just want to be friends and maybe hang out every now and then and it doesnt have to be just us two. But he just says idk maybe.

I feel like no one understands how hard this is for me STILL. I thought i was over him, but im not. I don’t think i ever will be. I love him. And im just asking for some advice that could help me get back with him. I will do whatever it takes. I know it will take a lot of time, but i need someone to please give me some advice. Love is the most amazing feeling in the world, and he was the most amazing guy. We were perfect together….

Please and thank you!

I understand how difficult it is for you, believe me. But you are making yourself convenient and available by seeing him, having sex. And for him, you are convenient for sex. That’s all you seem to do together these days.

While he was your first love, it seems to me that he’s no longer interested in a relationship, other than taking sex when he can get it. You’re being USED. Gather your dignity, learn to say "no" to him, and ignore him.

I’m sure there is someone out there who is right for you – you just haven’t met him yet.

Alright here is the story, Me and my Ex were going out for about 9 months in 2007 and we decided it would be best for us to break up because we where both going to be going to different schools and we both live on opposite sides of town so we would never really see each other.

That was all back in 2007 and it’s obviously 2009 now so we haven’t been going out for a few years.

Starting in august we have started talking to each other almost every day and for the past few days now we have been talking for about 5 hours each day..

The other day she was telling me some things like how much she hates her ex boyfriend and she was telling me mean things people say to her etc. I replied saying not to listen to anything those people say as they are stupid! lol

Well basically i want to ask her to the movies and hang out with her but im not sure what i should say =/ She is currently on msn right now and we are talking but it says shes busy because she is watching a tvshow. How should i bring it up with out sounding completely random or w.e.?

I do want to get back together with her but im not sure if she feels the same way..

She is the most beautiful girl i have ever met and she has the most amazing personality.. i would just do anything to be with her again.. seriously just thinking about her actually brings a tear to my eye knowing im not with her right now.. =(
(And no im not just saying that)

Just ask her, but becareful on getting your hopes up if she says yes because it could be that she just wants someone to talk to. If that is the case, be there for her but don’t be too shy to hint that you like her.