I got my girlfriend pregnant. She is currently 5 months pregnant. When I left her, she was 4 month and 2 weeks pregnant. It’s been 2 weeks that I talk to her. How do I get her back? I realized that I made the biggest mistake. I still very much in love with her and want to help raise our child. She’s the only girl for me. I would do anything just to be in her and our child’s life.
Tell her exactly what you just told us. Good luck!
So I began dating a foreign exchange student from bratislava around august 24. The first month and a half was great, but within the last three weeks i have noticed she stopped texting me good mornings and cut down on texting, skyping and facebook chatting with me all together. We did try to have sex about 6 weeks ago, but for some reason I could not keep an erection. (never had been a problem) She was never the same after that night as far as far as the amount of affection she showed me. Finally after about a week she seemed more like her old self. Now the last 2 weeks we have barely talked or hung out and she would not tell me anything was wrong. Tonight (2.5 months together) she wanted "a break" and i agreed although i still do not understand her feelings (she could not explain them). Any ideas as to what i can do? I am not ready to let her go yet although I know will have to later.
Hey
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex girlfriend back in this blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/ex2-system-review
all the best
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