What do I do to get my girlfriend back?
Well, this is like my 6th girlfriend or so and she broke up with me. She said that I fingered her too much and that I didn’t really care about her. I need to know what to do and how to get her back.
Hey Austin,
The best way to get a woman back is to accept the breakup and give her the space she needs. You need to create space to give her time to miss you. If you try to push your way back into the relationship, you will only end up pushing her away for good. If she’s truly done with the relationship, then you need to be willing to move on.
The problem is most guys make the same mistakes after a breakup. They beg, plead, apologize, call, text, email, and do all sorts of things that make them look needy, desperate, and ultimately unattractive in a woman’s eyes.
If you remain confident, go about your daily life like you are going to be ok with or without her, then you’ll send her all the right messages. By breaking off contact you give her a chance to miss you and chances are she’ll come back to you.
If she does come back, then do your best to make her feel loved and appreciated. Women need APPRECIATION more than anything in a relationship. If she only feels like you want her for sex or to "finger her", then she isn’t going to stick around.
I’ve put an excellent resource down below that can give you some additional insights. Hope that helps.
You don’t. You let it go (be mature) and move on.
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shoe her that she the only girl; for you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j5NMZGI0aJI
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tell her you love her and not Jus for sex
tell her if it was only for sex u would have been with someone else
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you need to convince her that it is her that youre interested in, not her body or free easy sex. so dont go overboard, but treat her like someone whos ideas and thoughts mean the world to you. treat her as though you were just getting to know her, and had never had a sexual relationship with her. make her feel like everything she says matters, even if you dont agree with it. dont be whipped, but let her know youre interested in her mind as well as her body
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Well… did you really care about her, or did you just want in her pants?
If you care about her then show her by not getting so physical and by doing something special for her, like showing up to her house with her favorite movie and ice cream. If you dont know her favorite movie and ice cream then chances are you didnt take the time to know her which means she was right and that you just want her physically. Maybe you need to find someone you actually like and thats not easy if you really want a girlfriend and not a hookup, there are really different.
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Talk to her and pay lots of attention to her.
If she’s talking to you, keep talking, call her.
Then go on a date that’s not sexual like dinner, bowling?
For the Date: Only put your arms around her (shoulder area) not waist … hold hands.
If you really want to get her back.. give her flowers, dress up nice.. not like a suit just look like you put effort into looking good for her.
All this will show her you are in the relationship for her and not the physical stuff.
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Hey Austin,
The best way to get a woman back is to accept the breakup and give her the space she needs. You need to create space to give her time to miss you. If you try to push your way back into the relationship, you will only end up pushing her away for good. If she’s truly done with the relationship, then you need to be willing to move on.
The problem is most guys make the same mistakes after a breakup. They beg, plead, apologize, call, text, email, and do all sorts of things that make them look needy, desperate, and ultimately unattractive in a woman’s eyes.
If you remain confident, go about your daily life like you are going to be ok with or without her, then you’ll send her all the right messages. By breaking off contact you give her a chance to miss you and chances are she’ll come back to you.
If she does come back, then do your best to make her feel loved and appreciated. Women need APPRECIATION more than anything in a relationship. If she only feels like you want her for sex or to "finger her", then she isn’t going to stick around.
I’ve put an excellent resource down below that can give you some additional insights. Hope that helps.
References :
http://www.Girlfriend-Breakup.com