How do I get my girlfriend to have sex with me?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In our 2 years nothing much has happened except for hugging,, kissing and holding hands. I am her first boyfriend. Her parents are really strict so they made sure I was the right choice. But now I feel that I want more passion in our relationship. I really want to have sex with her. But at the same time, I don’t want to be the only one enjoying it, I want her to enjoy too. In other words, I don’t want it to seem that I am raping her. I was thinking about asking her to come to my apartment one night and we’d have dinner and I’d let her drink a lot of alcohol so then she’d get drunk then I would make my move, but I think I’d be raping her. I’ve had a few girlfriends but she’s probably the best I’ve had, she really cares and the way she loves me is unconditional. Probably it’s because I’m her first. I know that she’s a virgin also. I want to have sex but do you think she’ll get mad??? Please help!
If you get her drunk and then have sex with her, yes, she probably will get mad. She is your girlfriend, and you should be able to have sex with her without getting her drunk. You need to talk to her and work thorugh your feelings with her. It’s actually quite likely that she wants to have sex with you too, but she’s just waiting for you to make the first move. Generally the guy is the one to make the first move, and so she’s probably just waiting for you.
Next time you are are kissing or making out, just slowly start to work your hands up under her shirt. Then just take things further, as far as you both want to go. Talk to each other and communicate, its the most important thing in a relationship! Goodluck with it all! 
"I was thinking about asking her to come to my apartment one night and we’d have dinner and I’d let her drink a lot of alcohol so then she’d get drunk then I would make my move"
lmfao!
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The best thing you can do is talk to her about how you feel, because in a relationship communication is the key. Talk to her about you emotions and how you feel towards her and that you would like to step the relationship up a little more. But the most important thing is to not take things too quickly, you may have another 100 years left of the relationship so take your time, find your pace and go from there. Start off with more affectionate moves to get comfortable with each other before you leap into sex.
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If you get her drunk and then have sex with her, yes, she probably will get mad. She is your girlfriend, and you should be able to have sex with her without getting her drunk. You need to talk to her and work thorugh your feelings with her. It’s actually quite likely that she wants to have sex with you too, but she’s just waiting for you to make the first move. Generally the guy is the one to make the first move, and so she’s probably just waiting for you.
Next time you are are kissing or making out, just slowly start to work your hands up under her shirt. Then just take things further, as far as you both want to go. Talk to each other and communicate, its the most important thing in a relationship! Goodluck with it all!
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This is nuts! You say you have an apartment so I suppose you are an adult. So how old is your girl friend? If she is underage it will still be rape, if not just say to the "woman" that you love her and want to have sex, what’s so hard about that out size of you I mean!
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Would you be upset if she were not still a virgin? I’m not saying I know anything… I’m just asking.
Anyway, to answer your question, I think you should break up with her because you know you’re so cool and macho that you need a more experienced woman who can take care of your needs. Maybe instead of inviting her over to try to get her drunk just drink all the beer yourself and go to a bar somewhere. I heard the Blue Oyster Bar, Bear Chasers, Flaming Twinkies, or the Rainbow Cafe were all good places to go if you want to "have a good time." Wear some tight pants.
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