Later edit: I know I’ve made this answer very, very long, but, please, make sure you read everything… It will help you a lot.

It sounds to me like she cares for you, but she’s not attracted to you anymore… This means she likes you as a friend, not as a boyfriend… not as a lover. But you can very easy fix that! Let me tell you a little story…

I’m an ok looking and nice guy, but, when I was in high school, I just couldn’t understand how the biggest jerks in my classroom were ending up with the most beautiful girls all the time… Were they better looking than me? Not really… at least, not all of them… Did they behave nicer than I did? Of, course not! They were treating the girls like crap, busting their balls all the time! They were making fun of them and the jokes were really nasty almost all the time! But still, somehow, they were getting attention from all the girls! What the hell was happening there?!…

…Am I saying that you have to become a jerk to get your ex girlfriend back? Hell no! You can still be yourself (probably a very nice person) and attract women (and your ex girlfriend too) like crazy. Actually, you can do way better than a jerk, because you can be nice and adapable and they simply can’t…

What I do say is that you can learn something from these high scool experiences with jerks…

#1. Leadership

#2. Self-Assurance

#3. Decisiveness

#4. Self-Control

These are the traits that attract women like crazy, and jerks are sometimes displaying them by mistake, with their arrogance and nasty jokes.

These are but a few of the main traits you absolutely *must* have in order to maintain a healthy "male/female polarity".

Now, don’t you think that you can do way better by simply learning how to be a man?

In many cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners without ever thinking of leaving the relationship… as long as they feel one primary emotion… and that’s called ATTRACTION.

Men usually tend to lose their masculine traits and their personality by letting their girlfriends lead the relationship… This way, they let the "male/female polarity" shift… and here’s what usually happens:

1. You tend to do only what she wants you to do, even if that’s not exactly what you want.

2. You change your preferences because she likes a certain music style, food, clothing, hairstyle etc…

3. You don’t always have plan in mind (i.e. when she asks you where you want to go out, you’re out of ideas and you let her chose… again).

Seems difficult? Well, women love a "man with a plan" and if you’re not willing to become one, you’ll face this issue over and over again.

You need to become that mysterious guy you used to be when you two first met. Become a challenge! Tell her you want to go out with her in a very unusual place… a place you’ve never been before with her…

But, first step you need to make is to give her some space… Give her the chance to miss you a little bit… to realize your value. Human beings only realize the true value of something when it’s gone… Give her a taste of your real value…

There are many ways to make her feel attracted to you again but, unfortunately, I can’t make this any longer. But, for now, if nothing else, at least do this!

If you’ve found this interesting, you can read more here:

http://www.quicklygetherback.com

I encourage you to do this because a lot of guys are able to get back with their girls in no time, every day, because of this information they get.

Good luck,
Ryan
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Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together

You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).

You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:

http://www.backwithextips.com/magic-of-making-up-review

I hope that you will get your ex girlfriend back soon!
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Be supportive, don’t push, don’t pry. Take care of yourself & make sure you are looking & smelling your best…do the things you’d do if she weren’t ever coming back, then take it slow when she does.
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