How do I get my ex-girlfriend back after I pushed her away?

Posted in How to get my girlfriend back by Admin on February 17, 2010 7 Comments

A little over three months ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. I made many mistakes when she first broke up with me. I tried convincing her to take me back, I acted all depressed, I contacted her and asked her to hang out, etc.

I haven’t tried to ask her to spend time with me for over a month now. What should I do at this point?

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  • Sarah:

    Now is the right time for you to send her a letter, it could be an email, and tell her that you admit your fault and that you are sorry. Take responsibility for your actions and tell her that you understand her reaction. Tell her that you still want her and that you are willing to make the necessary changes needed. Tell her that you are giving her time and space. You will not try to contact her so that she can use the time to see if there is still a chance that she’d take you back. Inform her that you are making positive changes in your life, so that one day, she will see that you are a changed man and you can be deserving of her love again.
    After you have sent the letter, don’t try to contact her. Give her several days or weeks. Wait for her to contact you. After reading the letter, she will surely respond to you one way or another.
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  • Ken:

    You made the mistake of contacting her too much and acting depressed. But don’t worry, it isn’t too late. Here is what you should start doing. Start seeing other girls and living your own life. Focus on improving aspects of your own life and working on things that you want to improve, and stop worrying about her for awhile.

    You should also start thinking long and hard about what caused the split in the first place. Was it something that you could have controlled? If it was, then change it. The bottom line is stop acting like it bothers you so much.

    Begging to talk to her and take you back is the worst thing you can do when you are trying to get your ex back.

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    References :
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  • Karen:

    Well I think you should inlease try to contact her try to make her realized how much you love her and make her realized you love her & want her in your life send her stuff such as flowers
    or presents you know? make her feel as if she’s the only girl who matters to you ok?

    Im sure she’ll come back if it was meant to be!
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  • Rob:

    OH DEAR …you really are guaranteeing to NEVER get her back doing that friend…. push and pull…have you ever heard the saying "the more you hold on to something the more it struggles to break free"..?
    LEAVE HER alone.
    the more you push someone to do something the further they go.
    walk away and do not call or text for at least 3 weeks .. and avoid her ..let her MISS you…let her know nothing about you at all..
    try here for tips and advice

    http://www.winbackanex.org
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  • Logicc:

    HI, remember what im about to say its only my opinion. Ok lets start by saying that you did make mistakes in trying to get her back by asking her and acting depressed, in reality most of us do make mistakes like that but you most start today as a new day. The best you can do is DISAPPEAR from her life, dont text her dotn call her dont email her dont aim her dont msn her and dont talk to her friends about her, pretend that you dropped off the face of the earth. With that said you must not act as if you are hurt because mad resembles being hurt, so lets say she texts you telling HI, HOPE YOU ARE DOING WELL. you must not answer that because its a text full of information and no questions therefore you should not answer. If she asks you a a question you got to answer to show that you are not hurt and you must be polite and brief. But dont ask her any questions ill give you an example:

    She: Hi, hope you are well how is your mother?
    You: she is good thank you. take care :)

    Let me give you a short explanation why disappearing works. When you disappear you give them a chance to miss you, to have the sense of lost that they haven’t felt because in all reality she still has not lost you because you are there for her or at least she think so and by human nature a person cannot miss what they have not lost yet. When you disappear you give them a chance to miss you but most importantly a chance for you to heal and see the world without her and start loving yourself again and be happy. If she never misses you and never comes back, guess what? she was not in love with you anymore and you are better off because you shouldn’t be with someone that is not in love with you, but if she does come back let it be on your terms (please dont take her back the 1st time she comes back and dont assume because she says i miss you is that she wants to come back). If she does come back the words have to come out of her mouth I WANT YOU BACK PLEASE, if they dont then dont assume thats the worse you can do. Its easier said than done but it can be done trust me. I dont know you your full story but if you want support for free join the blog at sheleftwhatnow.blogspot.com its free and is just a community for people trying to get over others (they had plenty of comments before but it got too big and they started a new page)…. You can do it all you need to do is love yourself, ….WHEN YOU CHASE IS NORMAL FOR THEM TO RUN…AND WHEN YOU RUN SOMETIMES THEY CHASE AFTER YOU. Good Luck.
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