Comments on: How do I get my ex-girlfriend back? http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2 Discover The Real Secrets To Get Your Ex Back, Stop Break Up, And Make Your Ex Fall Back In Love With You All Over Again Guaranteed” Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:56:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: John C Vincent http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2231 John C Vincent Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:42:33 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2231 First, you must decide whether the relationship is worth saving. While almost every relationship can be saved with hard work, both parties must decide that they want to make it work. Because if a partner has opted out and doesn’t want to opt back in, there is little that can be done. Many people stay in a relationship because it is convenient or remain in a marriage because of the children. But that is not enough. How to save a relationship starts with a commitment by both parties that the relationship is worth saving. John C Vincent First, you must decide whether the relationship is worth saving.
While almost every relationship can be saved with hard work,
both parties must decide that they want to make it work. Because
if a partner has opted out and doesn’t want to opt back in,
there is little that can be done.

Many people stay in a relationship because it is convenient or
remain in a marriage because of the children. But that is not
enough. How to save a relationship starts with a commitment by
both parties that the relationship is worth saving.

John C Vincent

]]> By: Ryan Torres http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2229 Ryan Torres Sat, 06 Mar 2010 11:31:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2229 Hi Ryan... This is funny, because my name is also Ryan... Nice to meet you. ;) You didn't provide any details... It's going to be very hard for me to answer your question (and this will make this answer really long - please, make sure you read everything, it will help you a lot). But, there are two main reasons why relationships come to an end: 1. The first scenario has to do with something really wrong that you or your ex did (like cheating for instance). If you've cheated on your ex or you did something that really upset them, you need to learn how to make an effective apology, otherwise, your ex will never be able to forgive you fully (and, no, saying "I'm sorry" it's not enough). They need to know that you really understand how bad they felt when it happened. When you do that, avoid saying things like "it was nothing". This will only demonstrate that you are not congruent with what they feel. But, if you're serious about getting your ex back, I'm going to teach you how to make a deep apology that will save your relationship. 2. The second scenario has to do with a loss of attraction. What this means is that your ex is not that into you anymore. Does any of the following sound familiar...? "I'm not sure I want this anymore. I feel that I should meet more people and try different things before I settle down. I feel like I'm not ready yet to commit to someone. It's not you... it's me..." It's funny to hear variations of this in almost every situation. But the core reason is the same: your ex does not feel attracted to you anymore. Understand that, at the beginning of your relationship, your ex wasn't attracted to you by chance. But as the relationship progressed, you began to lose some, most or all of the attractive traits. If you want your ex back, you need to learn about this gender-specific traits that can make you attractive and really become an attractive person again. There is so much to be said about this... but let me tell you a little story (I bet you've been there too): I'm an ok looking and nice guy, but, when I was in high school, I just couldn't understand how the biggest jerks in my classroom were ending up with the most beautiful girls all the time... Were they better looking than me? Not really... at least, not all of them... Did they behave nicer than I did? Of, course not! They were treating the girls like crap, busting their balls all the time! They were making fun of them and the jokes were really nasty almost all the time! But still, somehow, they were getting attention from all the girls! What the hell was happening there?!... ...Am I saying that you have to become a jerk to get your ex girlfriend back? Hell no! You can still be yourself (probably a very nice person) and attract women (and your ex girlfriend too) like crazy. Actually, you can do way better than a jerk, because you can be nice and adapable and they simply can't... What I do say is that you can learn something from these high scool experiences with jerks... #1. Leadership #2. Self-Assurance #3. Decisiveness #4. Self-Control These are the traits that attract women like crazy, and jerks are sometimes displaying them by mistake, with their arrogance and nasty jokes. These are but a few of the main traits you absolutely *must* have in order to maintain a healthy "male/female polarity". Now, don't you think that you can do way better by simply learning how to be a man? In many cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners without ever thinking of leaving the relationship... as long as they feel one primary emotion... and that's called ATTRACTION. Men usually tend to lose their masculine traits and their personality by letting their girlfriends lead the relationship... This way, they let the "male/female polarity" shift... and here's what usually happens: 1. You tend to do only what she wants you to do, even if that's not exactly what you want. 2. You change your preferences because she likes a certain music style, food, clothing, hairstyle etc... 3. You don't always have plan in mind (i.e. when she asks you where you want to go out, you're out of ideas and you let her chose... again). Seems difficult? Well, women love a "man with a plan" and if you're not willing to become one, you'll face this issue over and over again. You need to become that mysterious guy you used to be when you two first met. Become a challenge! Tell her you want to go out with her in a very unusual place... a place you've never been before with her... But, first step you need to make is to give her some space... Give her the chance to miss you a little bit... to realize your value. Human beings only realize the true value of something when it's gone... Give her a taste of your real value... There are many ways to make her feel attracted to you again but, unfortunately, I can't make this any longer. But, for now, if nothing else, at least do this! If you've found this interesting, you can read more here: http://www.quicklygetherback.com I encourage you to do this because a lot of guys are able to get back with their girls in no time, every day, because of this information they get. Good luck, Ryan<br><b>References : </b><br> Hi Ryan…

This is funny, because my name is also Ryan… Nice to meet you. ;)

You didn’t provide any details… It’s going to be very hard for me to answer your question (and this will make this answer really long – please, make sure you read everything, it will help you a lot). But, there are two main reasons why relationships come to an end:

1. The first scenario has to do with something really wrong that you or your ex did (like cheating for instance). If you’ve cheated on your ex or you did something that really upset them, you need to learn how to make an effective apology, otherwise, your ex will never be able to forgive you fully (and, no, saying "I’m sorry" it’s not enough). They need to know that you really understand how bad they felt when it happened. When you do that, avoid saying things like "it was nothing". This will only demonstrate that you are not congruent with what they feel. But, if you’re serious about getting your ex back, I’m going to teach you how to make a deep apology that will save your relationship.

2. The second scenario has to do with a loss of attraction. What this means is that your ex is not that into you anymore. Does any of the following sound familiar…? "I’m not sure I want this anymore. I feel that I should meet more people and try different things before I settle down. I feel like I’m not ready yet to commit to someone. It’s not you… it’s me…" It’s funny to hear variations of this in almost every situation. But the core reason is the same: your ex does not feel attracted to you anymore. Understand that, at the beginning of your relationship, your ex wasn’t attracted to you by chance. But as the relationship progressed, you began to lose some, most or all of the attractive traits. If you want your ex back, you need to learn about this gender-specific traits that can make you attractive and really become an attractive person again.

There is so much to be said about this… but let me tell you a little story (I bet you’ve been there too):

I’m an ok looking and nice guy, but, when I was in high school, I just couldn’t understand how the biggest jerks in my classroom were ending up with the most beautiful girls all the time… Were they better looking than me? Not really… at least, not all of them… Did they behave nicer than I did? Of, course not! They were treating the girls like crap, busting their balls all the time! They were making fun of them and the jokes were really nasty almost all the time! But still, somehow, they were getting attention from all the girls! What the hell was happening there?!…

…Am I saying that you have to become a jerk to get your ex girlfriend back? Hell no! You can still be yourself (probably a very nice person) and attract women (and your ex girlfriend too) like crazy. Actually, you can do way better than a jerk, because you can be nice and adapable and they simply can’t…

What I do say is that you can learn something from these high scool experiences with jerks…

#1. Leadership

#2. Self-Assurance

#3. Decisiveness

#4. Self-Control

These are the traits that attract women like crazy, and jerks are sometimes displaying them by mistake, with their arrogance and nasty jokes.

These are but a few of the main traits you absolutely *must* have in order to maintain a healthy "male/female polarity".

Now, don’t you think that you can do way better by simply learning how to be a man?

In many cases, women will tolerate a lot of crap from their partners without ever thinking of leaving the relationship… as long as they feel one primary emotion… and that’s called ATTRACTION.

Men usually tend to lose their masculine traits and their personality by letting their girlfriends lead the relationship… This way, they let the "male/female polarity" shift… and here’s what usually happens:

1. You tend to do only what she wants you to do, even if that’s not exactly what you want.

2. You change your preferences because she likes a certain music style, food, clothing, hairstyle etc…

3. You don’t always have plan in mind (i.e. when she asks you where you want to go out, you’re out of ideas and you let her chose… again).

Seems difficult? Well, women love a "man with a plan" and if you’re not willing to become one, you’ll face this issue over and over again.

You need to become that mysterious guy you used to be when you two first met. Become a challenge! Tell her you want to go out with her in a very unusual place… a place you’ve never been before with her…

But, first step you need to make is to give her some space… Give her the chance to miss you a little bit… to realize your value. Human beings only realize the true value of something when it’s gone… Give her a taste of your real value…

There are many ways to make her feel attracted to you again but, unfortunately, I can’t make this any longer. But, for now, if nothing else, at least do this!

If you’ve found this interesting, you can read more here:

http://www.quicklygetherback.com

I encourage you to do this because a lot of guys are able to get back with their girls in no time, every day, because of this information they get.

Good luck,
Ryan
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]]> By: Jenny M http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2228 Jenny M Sat, 06 Mar 2010 11:03:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2228 Well you need to display her want in you. You need to be the guy she was first attracted, if you still talk let, display that your doing fine and your even seeing other people. Here is a great article on how to get her back. Hope this helps<br><b>References : </b><br>http://howtowinbackmyex.info/5-Steps-To-Get-Your-Ex-Back-By-Building-The-Anticipation.html Well you need to display her want in you. You need to be the guy she was first attracted, if you still talk let, display that your doing fine and your even seeing other people. Here is a great article on how to get her back. Hope this helps
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]]> By: Mary http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2227 Mary Sat, 06 Mar 2010 10:45:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2227 The first thing you need to do is figure out she left you. Was it because you didnt satisfy her in some way? Then slowly start some casual communication with her, but dont become desperate or anything like that, otherwise she will just run a mile away. Plan your next outing with her. You need to know what your going to say, where you are going to meet, ensuring that you say things or act in a way that will lead you back to being together again<br><b>References : </b><br>http://www.fixbrokenmarriage.com/the-magic-of-making-up-ebook-review.html The first thing you need to do is figure out she left you. Was it because you didnt satisfy her in some way?

Then slowly start some casual communication with her, but dont become desperate or anything like that, otherwise she will just run a mile away.

Plan your next outing with her. You need to know what your going to say, where you are going to meet, ensuring that you say things or act in a way that will lead you back to being together again
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http://www.fixbrokenmarriage.com/the-magic-of-making-up-ebook-review.html

]]> By: Erica http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2226 Erica Sat, 06 Mar 2010 10:02:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2226 when you get back with some one there usually are alot of problems. if it had anything to do with cheating (you really think that is forgiveable? ) its hard to get someone back if you made them feel unwanted before. but if you really think you might have a chance tips: dont beg a man or a woman see's that as weakness and will laugh at you. dont be up in her space and dont try to push things into working, dont be in a rush in getting back together. start off by talking to her again and try being friends first then after a lil while ask her on a one on one date, either if it works or doesnt next day or so buy her a present nothing to extreme... let her know that you are forgiveable or want to be forgiven.<br><b>References : </b><br> when you get back with some one there usually are alot of problems. if it had anything to do with cheating (you really think that is forgiveable? ) its hard to get someone back if you made them feel unwanted before. but if you really think you might have a chance tips: dont beg a man or a woman see’s that as weakness and will laugh at you. dont be up in her space and dont try to push things into working, dont be in a rush in getting back together. start off by talking to her again and try being friends first then after a lil while ask her on a one on one date, either if it works or doesnt next day or so buy her a present nothing to extreme… let her know that you are forgiveable or want to be forgiven.
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]]> By: abbeycoolit http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2225 abbeycoolit Sat, 06 Mar 2010 09:42:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2225 There is no way to answer your question since you did not provide much information. However,you can not get any body back unless they want to come back to you.Plus you can not force anybody to love you or make them return the feelings you might have for them. If you wish you can rewrite your story ,add as much information as you can and then re-post it again.<br><b>References : </b><br> There is no way to answer your question since you did not provide much information. However,you can not get any body back unless they want to come back to you.Plus you can not force anybody to love you or make them return the feelings you might have for them. If you wish you can rewrite your story ,add as much information as you can and then re-post it again.
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]]> By: master_escrimador http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2224 master_escrimador Sat, 06 Mar 2010 09:31:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2224 More information would have been nice. Knowing about the situation of how you broke up and why could have given insight on how to get your girl back, Not knowing the details makes that very difficult.<br><b>References : </b><br> More information would have been nice. Knowing about the situation of how you broke up and why could have given insight on how to get your girl back, Not knowing the details makes that very difficult.
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]]> By: ;* http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2223 ;* Sat, 06 Mar 2010 08:50:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2223 just tell her how you feel straight up & if she still doesnt want you then, move on. i know its easier said than done, but its really the best way<br><b>References : </b><br> just tell her how you feel straight up & if she still doesnt want you then, move on.
i know its easier said than done, but its really the best way
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]]> By: S_E_V_E_N http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2222 S_E_V_E_N Sat, 06 Mar 2010 08:33:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2222 Impress her somehow and you'll get her back.I can't give you a specific advice because i don't know her...Maybe flowers and dinner + red wine ;)<br><b>References : </b><br> Impress her somehow and you’ll get her back.I can’t give you a specific advice because i don’t know her…Maybe flowers and dinner + red wine ;)
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]]> By: Taylor:] http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2/comment-page-1#comment-2221 Taylor:] Sat, 06 Mar 2010 08:19:59 +0000 http://getyourexbackguru.com/how-to-get-my-girlfriend-back/how-do-i-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-2#comment-2221 Be sweet to her if she talks to you. If she doesn't, leave her alone.<br><b>References : </b><br>life Be sweet to her if she talks to you. If she doesn’t, leave her alone.
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