Ex-Girlfriend wont talk to me? How can I get her back?

Posted in How to get my girlfriend back by Admin on January 5, 2010 16 Comments

She broke up with me because I was being verbally abusive to her, she said I broke her heart. She won’t talk to anymore, no matter what I do. How can I convince her to come back? Anyone have experience with this? Winter break is coming up and I want to make up with her. Help?

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  • srenots:

    Why do people hate you
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  • wildchild_16@sbcglobal.net:

    Just move on, maybe you shouldn’t have been verbally abusive to her!
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  • ***LuLu ***:

    You must have done damages that can be undone.
    So maybe leaving you is the best thing she did.
    It’s not okay to verbally to abuse someone.
    The wounds of physical abuse heals, but when someone is scarred inside it might even never heal.
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  • Danielle:

    First of all, if you were verbally abusive and she left you, leave her alone. She has made the decision that she no longer wants to be with you and you need to respect that. You made the mistake of abusing her, and she has the right to move on.

    Besides that, you should seek help for your abusive behaviours. Concentrating on improving yourself will mean that the next relationship you have will be happier and healthier, whether it is with the ex or not. Either way, you need to respect her decision. Abuse is NEVER okay in a relationship…get help
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  • Hthyntj:

    u broke her heart u verbally abused her no wonder she wont get back with u she dont like u any more move on how would u like it being verbally abused?
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  • ekto s:

    Explain why a girl should tolerate an abusive boyfriend…

    She may be punishing you right now.
    Just leave her alone.
    Send her a holiday card.
    Don’t write any crap in it.

    Give her some time away from you.
    Maybe find another female friend to hang with.
    If she sees this and suddenly is wanting to talk to you, then she really likes you.
    If she does not react, then she probably does not want to be around you any more.
    Give up your abusiveness.
    It has no purpose, except to drive the girls away!
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  • TragicallyUnhip:

    You fucked up. Deal with it and move on.
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  • moonstruck:

    The only way you can get her back is to do something very very romantic that shows her exactly how you feel.. Tell her to meet you somewhere, tell her it’s extremely important. If that doesn’t work be very kind tobher you need to show her how you feel not just tell her.
    Do something amazing for her.
    Go up to her at school with a flower and tell her you want her back. Anything but show her how much you want her back and how you have changed and will never treat her bad again.
    But if you’re just going to hurt her again then back off.
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    This reminds me of my last relationship.

  • k:

    if i were her,i would’ve dumped u too.u just don’t treat women like that.
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  • monique j:

    get counseling for verbal abuse. let her know you are getting help. write her a song
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    my husband got counseling for verbal abuse. it really helped him.

  • David Bowie's pants:

    I get verbally abused by one of my friends all the time and it’s really hurtful so i know where she’s coming from here. Maybe it you prove to her that you have changed and WON’T VERBALLY ABUSE HER she might come back. might.
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  • Sissy Smurf:

    If you were verbally abusive to her, she has her head on right for leavin’ you..

    If you were verbally abusive to her and have changed, don’t just tell her you’ve changed, show her. You’ll know how if you’re mature enough. The quote "Actions speak louder than words" is extremely true. And don’t just go towards her and say hurry, we need to make up before winter break – because who are you to rush her? She was smart to get away from you if you verbally abused her.. And if you have changed and want to SHOW her that you have, you’ll back off and give her time. Let her have time to see that you’ve changed..
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  • God Via LPTrax:

    Try writing her a letter from your heart with truth. Don’t try to get her back to treat her the same way. Learn from your mistakes. Was there a jealousy issue? If she don’t want you back learn and mature & in the future you will be A OK! Don’t stress her. If you get her back somebody will get you back.
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  • Hunter:

    im a nature asshole and i have NEVER dissrespected a girl…plan it out..call her phone and leave a message saying thank you for doing what you did and hang up..think about some really good excuse..in your case say…thank you for dumping me it helped me realize what i did was wrong and im sorry, i dont desserve a girl like you…before she even has time to say a word. hang up. if she calls back DO NOT ANSWER wait like 3 hours before you answer her..its pretty much a fool proof plan unless you mess it up somehow
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  • SuckHimUpGud :D:

    You seem religious so why would you do such thing to her? I suggest for you to leave her alone and find a another girl but this time don’t make the same mistake.

    Good luck! :D
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