How to get ex to notice me?

Posted in How to get ex back by Admin on August 15, 2009 12 Comments

Theres this guy that i dated 2 years ago. i was a sophmore and he was a freshman. We dated for about a month and i broke up with him because i was stupid back then and listened to my friends who thought he was immature and annoying. well now 2 years later i like him again. what do i do to get him to notice me again? and whenever i am around him i freeze up and forget everything i had planned on saying to him.

It all depends on how bad the breakup was. If you left the relationship as friends or on friendly terms and did not act like a psycho then approach him and talk to him. If he is interested in you then it will work out.
DO NOT ever listen to friends listen to your heart and what it is telling you. Your friends could be saying things out of jealousy or he might not be THEIR type but he might be good for you.
Ask if you can start over and introduce yourself again and ask for him to forgive you and you made a mistake.
It sounds like you really liked him and still do. If it is right then it wil lall come together on its own. Just be around and try to build a friendship first because that is the healthiest way to begin any relationship. It might be easier to chat with him on the phone first so you can have time to think about what you want to say to him.

Comments
  • PuppyMama:

    You don’t…

    Move on, chica! Actually, he’ll notice you the most when you aren’t paying attention to him!

    P.S. It’s called a breakup because it’s broken… good book!
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  • butterfly:

    be a slut!!!! guys think its RAD;)
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  • gdfreak:

    Try the same things that got him to notice you 2 years ago. If that doesn’t work, maybe it’s best that you move on.
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  • Alexia:

    honey, you do not need him! an ex is an ex for a reason. if it didn’t work out the first time, you should just move on.
    there are plenty of fish in the sea and tons of awesome guys who will suit you beautifully!
    don’t give up, you’ll find your dream guy, trust me :)
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  • Ginababii:

    talk to him.. if its meant to be it will be sweetheart
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  • KeVin:

    u need to talk to him in person. maybe sum 1 on 1 time. But problem is guys hate it when u say "omg i listened to my friends and i broke up with u" That wont cut it, because we feel like you’ll listened to them again. i feel u should move on just so u dont look desperate, cuz guys can take advantage of that too.
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    keep ur head up

  • fetchgirl23:

    the best thing to do is tell him, but if you always get nervous before you do, send him a text,email or tell him on the phone. or you can always have a friend tell him. but guys usually notice you when your not trying. good luck!
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  • answeraway:

    first see if hes in a relationship, if not just be yourself around him but project confidence, dont look shy around him, ex boyfriends love a confident ex girlfriend it makes them regret breaking up, its a guys weakness. be sure to have something to say to him think of a few subjects and choose one when he comes around, make it interesting but dont talk to long, Do Not let him think you are desperate to get back together. just let him see that you are confident and independent and happy he will be drawn to you, hes already attracted to you because yall dated all you need is swag : )
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    been there before, and… there now

  • aprildela:

    Let it go. Lesson learned. Now you know to trust your own instincts instead of listening to other people. Hey you were young, that’s how you learn these things. The last thing you wanna do is make a fool of yourself by trying to get him to notice you after you rejected him. Let it go.
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  • batman:

    be a S.L.U.T ! that will get his attention! LMAO hahahaha
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  • naty:

    lol…i used to do that too. I usually would look super pretty more than usual and spark up convo like hey how are your classes? txt him saying hey..that would spark a whole lot of convo. I hope you get the attention you are looking for and remember misery and jealousy loves company..dont listen to your friends cuz at the end of the day you have to deal with him not your friends and if they were your true girls they wouldnt put negative things in your head just because they want to. GOOD LUCk love and start with txts ok..hey support my pup rocky just click on the link

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  • na n:

    It all depends on how bad the breakup was. If you left the relationship as friends or on friendly terms and did not act like a psycho then approach him and talk to him. If he is interested in you then it will work out.
    DO NOT ever listen to friends listen to your heart and what it is telling you. Your friends could be saying things out of jealousy or he might not be THEIR type but he might be good for you.
    Ask if you can start over and introduce yourself again and ask for him to forgive you and you made a mistake.
    It sounds like you really liked him and still do. If it is right then it wil lall come together on its own. Just be around and try to build a friendship first because that is the healthiest way to begin any relationship. It might be easier to chat with him on the phone first so you can have time to think about what you want to say to him.
    References :

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