Comments on: How do you get back an ex boyfriend who wont talk to you?

By: Ilse C

Ilse C — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 20:19:59 +0000

Clearly there was a reason you broke up. Instead of asking this question a thousand times why don’t you ask how to move on. I think it is time to move on and try someone new. If a year down the road you still feel like he was the one for you then try to talk to him again. He may need some time and space away from your crazy ass. I think it’s time for a change rather than a rerun of what has been.
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my own life

By: Lucille

Lucille — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 20:11:59 +0000

Hey there,
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you need to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s important.

7 Tips To Get Back With Ex

1. So sit down on your own and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t harass yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can effect.

2. Whichever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be amazed at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!

3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, especially if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you have to do this.

4. You might learn later that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.

5. If your mistakes originated in you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be beneficial.

6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral due to the fact that then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.

7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.

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All the best!
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By: Tammy

Tammy — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:38:59 +0000

My husband and I almost ended our three-year relationship last December. I didn’t know for sure what happened between him and the woman that we argued about. But I remember that our relationship was strained and we fought everyday over literally everything. We went to a couple of counselings and started to read about rebuilding the trust and respect in relationship. At one point, we started to sit down and talk about our feelings toward each other. Trust me, it helps, since neither one of us is a mind reader. Nowadays, we feel very comfortable talking about what happened and how we could move on and focus on our life together. We are very happy together now, we are bonding like when we first met but even stronger. The true love of your life is the one that makes your heart beat a little faster, the person you are constantly trying to impress, the person whose voice you need to hear, who you enjoy talking to, the person you do the little things for. But most importantly, it is the person you feel comfortable and complete with. If you are serious about making up with your loved one and rebuilding your relationship, this is one book I highly recommend..it helped us a lot..

http://tinyurl.com/MakingUpMiracle

Take care and God bless
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By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:15:59 +0000

You might not be able to. What you have to do is approach slowly, and attempt to make peace. I'm sure that if you stick with it, either you'll find happiness together, or you'll realize that he's not for you.
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By: ~¤Funshine¤~

~¤Funshine¤~ — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 18:43:59 +0000

The more you push things the further away you’ll ‘push’ him. Strike out on your own and move on…that’s what he’ll notice. A sad puppy dog following him around…he won’t care to stop and look at.

You give him all the power when you follow him around and beg for his attention and affection, take back the power by moving on.
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By: brook's mom

brook's mom — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 18:20:59 +0000

Don’t do it. If he doesn’t want to talk to you…he probably doesn’t want to be with you.Leave him alone and get wit someone else.U don’t need him
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By: First NameMalik

First NameMalik — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:42:59 +0000

Just show him some more varities,which I suppose you have ample.
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By: Big Dong

Big Dong — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:15:59 +0000

Offer to give him head
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By: Anniex0x0x0

Anniex0x0x0 — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:27:59 +0000

you don’t
im not trying to be rude but it’s true move on and find someone more deserving of your love
you don’t deserve to be wasting your time on someone who doesn’t want to talk to you

good luck!
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By: Photographer♥

Photographer♥ — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:12:59 +0000

Give him a lil bit of time then try to talk to him
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personal experiance