How do I get over my ex-virgin girlfriend having sex?
My ex girlfriend who I knew for 3 years cheated on me. Her virginity was very important to me as it described her as innocent, wise, and pure.
She called me the other day to see how things were going and admitted to having sex for the first time with her new boyfriend.
I can’t get over it. Images keep flashing in my head about how wonderful she felt having her virginity broken by another guy.
Can someone please help?
I can understand how you’re upset, I have gone through similar situations many times but this is a harsh reality of the "girl next door" types. They don’t stay pure and innocent forever. Whether it’s some guy at a bar, club, somewhere, someone’s money, something will lure them in and they’ll give up their innocence in an instant and never be the same after that.
I’ve found that it’s not so hard anymore to get over it, because when it comes down to it they’re now just like all the rest of the bar hopper type of girls who have no self control.
Girls who are virgins are very rare nowadays. And the stupid thing is most girls lose their virginity to someone who isn’t even in their life anymore.
So, the easiest way to get over her losing her virginity is to meet someone new. It takes time.
leave her alone
let her live her life and stay out of it
get another girl
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the first time is usually rubbish and gets better with practice so dont get bothered..
or find yourself another virgin g/f
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oh that’s jacked up you should just forget about her and live you life man. *Live ~ Laugh ~ Love*.
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dam dude i feel for you man, hang in thier bub, but bottom line might be is that she was not that innocent to begin with,or maybe she just coudnt take it nomore and had to lose it, sorry if i’m making things worst but a way to get over it is feel pity and disapointed for her,atleast u’ll be on top and make her feel like crap,tat mite make u feel better atleast
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She could be lying, to get you jealous because i doubt an ex girlfriend would tell her exboy friend about her sexual activities. I for one, would never tell my ex that, if something of that nature happened to me.
Honestly, i think you should forget about her because she no longer has those feelings for you. You need to find someone else, simply move on.
PEACE=]!
ps. people change, you need to accept that.
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I can understand how you’re upset, I have gone through similar situations many times but this is a harsh reality of the "girl next door" types. They don’t stay pure and innocent forever. Whether it’s some guy at a bar, club, somewhere, someone’s money, something will lure them in and they’ll give up their innocence in an instant and never be the same after that.
I’ve found that it’s not so hard anymore to get over it, because when it comes down to it they’re now just like all the rest of the bar hopper type of girls who have no self control.
Girls who are virgins are very rare nowadays. And the stupid thing is most girls lose their virginity to someone who isn’t even in their life anymore.
So, the easiest way to get over her losing her virginity is to meet someone new. It takes time.
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