How do i get my ex best friend back?
in 8th grade i became best best best friends with this girl that i had known since kindergarten but we were always just little kid friends but in 8th grade (2years ago) we became bestttt friends. last year (9th grade) this stupid girl came (my ex bff from like 7th grade that i hate now and hated then) and had everyyy single class with her and so they became best friends. now me and my ex bff are not frieds..we have tried talkking multiple times but nothing has worked whatsoever. we stilll talk…and are nice to eachother…(instead of ignoring and hating eachother like we did in the middle of 9th grade) but i reallly wanna be best friends with her again because i miss her soo much. i just need a way to get her back besidessss confronting her about my problem because that doesnt work!
PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!
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If you really want your bff back you have to put all your pride aside. Tell her how you truly feel. Tell her you wanted to be like old times. One of you have to be the bigger person and if she doesn’t do it then you have to. That’s the only way. Trust me, I had too much pride and let my one and only gf. Now im stuck hanging out with a bunch of guys lol which is cool and all but its not the same as having a close gf.
good luck!
If you really want your bff back you have to put all your pride aside. Tell her how you truly feel. Tell her you wanted to be like old times. One of you have to be the bigger person and if she doesn’t do it then you have to. That’s the only way. Trust me, I had too much pride and let my one and only gf. Now im stuck hanging out with a bunch of guys lol which is cool and all but its not the same as having a close gf.
good luck!
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experience.
invite her over, sit with her at lunch, talk to her more often. Thats the only way to get closer to someone
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That’s a tough situation, especially since you’ve both tried to talk to each other about it. I think you should tell her what you told us: you just want to be best friends again because you miss her. Say you feel like you’ve become distant from each other and want to close that gap.
I hope it all works out for you.
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trust me it does help.. it really does cause if yu tell her how yur feeling then she will understand..and just tell her tht yu guys dnt have to be like bestfriends in the blink of an eye, buh do tell her tht yur willing to take the chance and try again..cause she means soo much to yu.
buh if she isnt willing to give yu the time of day.. dnt force her, just leave her alone and make yur own bestfriend. i mean yes it can be hard trying to find a new friend..buh its totally worth it.
trust when i say tht this will help
by the way, thnks for the advice tht yu gave me: it was about tht new girl tht was pushing way too hard to become my friend…
soo good luck, and i hope all goes well !
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you should just try to get closer with her, try finding something you both like to talk about. or invite her to go shopping and talk about the memories you guys had?
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hello thank you for answering me questions about me nmy gf. but in ur case. just be friends and have her come over hang out, go to the mall together, movies? sleep overs? have u thought about? getting over the past and moving on with both of those girls n have a 3 some bff’s ya know?
hit me up on my email llzet_05@yahoo.com
you seem really cool to talk to !!
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Email her or try to call her tell you how you feel I’m sure she misses you and feels the same way…
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ummm.. maybe invite her over, just the two of you and have like a heart to heart or whatever with her. tell her how much you miss having her around, what you like about her..or have like a party and make sure she has a good time, and then invite her over?
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stop been a pussay and confront her.
its the only way
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Tell your "bff" that you like how you feel about it, and text her and be like i know we haven’t been so close lately, but i really wish w could be the great friends we used to be.
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Make sure you keep in touch with her and try asking her around yours making her feel at home, maybe she’ll ask to be best friends again.
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Okay, the best thing to do here, is to be honest. Now i know that if i really didn’t want to lose this friend, i would call her or even go to her house! Just to get her attention, and tell her how i feel. You need to do that. Tell her everything completely open up and say we need to be friends again. And if you don’t get the response you deserve, shes not worth the friendship.
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talk to her and tell her how you feel about it, ask her what she thinks about the whole thing. If it still doesn’t work i think you should just leave it.
thanks for answering mine
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