How To Get Your Ex Back!!!

Your unique like every1 else:

it takes time
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I’m in the same situation girlfriend! I just got dumped a few nights ago… we were going so well too… and we were clearly in love with eachother. But he has refused to talk to me over something so silly… and it’s been a week.

What I did was grieve. It’s okay to cry. Just cry your heart out, write how you feel on a piece of paper. And then rip it up, I dunno why but that act was kind of empowering, and I knew that I could never get him back, so I didn’t really need a piece of paper reminding me how sad I am. Then after you’ve grieved, go out, preoccupy yourself with something else. What are some of your hobbies? What are some things that make you happy? Put in a comedy on the dvd and it will lighten you up and make things a little easier.
Also this is probably the most crucial time to go and be in the company of your family and friends, because unlike him, they’ve always been there for you. Good luck… just know that you won’t be grieving for this guy for the rest of your life, even though it may seem like forever. Give it time.
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* Not so perfect *:

Honey, trust me I know how you feel, I’ve been there and I know how much it hurts. I wish I could help but theres no words I can offer you that will stop it hurting. My advice is to act like every things okay, make a fresh start and put on a fake smile. Carry on with your life and eventually things will get easier, time heals all things even if it makes them worse at first… It took me 15 months to finally say I’m over my ex boyfriend whilst meaning it. But I’m not a very independent person so if I can do it anyone can. Keep talking to friends and family about how you feel, they’ll help you through this. Remember keep a brave smile on your face, don’t let this get the better of you.
If you ever feel like talking to someone about how you feel who you don’t really know then feel free to email me I’m happy to listen and offer advice.
Best of luck x
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ashleyv79:

If you want an honest opinion, sadly it never stops hurting.

My ex and I were together for 3 years and 4 months and although as of right now I can say it doesn’t hurt at all but if I see him some where laughing, having a wonderful time and a girl hanging on him it comes back and it stings harder then it did the last time. If you truly love him he’ll always hold that special place in your heart. First loves never die, sadly.

All I can really say is if he calls/texts you and if you HAVE to answer it be distant, be very very distant, for one it’ll drive him up the wall and two it’ll show that you aren’t all strung out on him. You don’t want to let him know he got the best of you. Don’t let him win, you’ll just feed his ego. If you see him and if he comes to talk to you be very brief with him, if he asks you where you’re going well that’s up to you, normally I go for the smart ass comments like "What’s it to you?" or "You aren’t with me and you have no claim over me, I don’t owe you an explanation or a blow by blow report." I’m not going to lie, sometimes it back fires on me and he’ll bust out with the whole "Oh, you’re being defensive" crap but most of the time it works.

Another thing that help me is the songs that were ‘our songs’ I’d listen to them over and over and over again so next time they’d come on it wouldn’t take me by surprise and it won’t hurt as if you had 100 knives stabbed into your chest. I took all his pictures down and packed it into a box and on those really sad, lonely, vulnerable days like ex-anniversaries, birthdays, holidays I look them over. Yeah, it seems crazy and it seems like you’re setting yourself up for a melt down but I honestly can say it works. I can look at those pictures and smile and yes it’s a bitter sweet moment but all in all I’m glad I went through with it because it taught me a great lesson.

I’m not gonna let you see
what you have done to me
’cause I know you’re not worth it
and I’ll get over you
but the question is
will you get over me.

^ I believe in that 100%, you should too.

Good luck and feel better.
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bluedragon:

Well I say that don’t try to get back with him, b/c if the reason you guys aren’t together is b/c he stopped loving you, there’s nothing you can say, do or look to bring him back. If one day he does feel like he still loved you, and never stopped, then he will be back. Until then, tell yourself you can’t love someone that doesn’t love you, you can’t put yourself in situations that will hurt you. Me and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago, and the reason he broke up with me is he felt like he could never forget some of the things I’ve put him through and he enjoys being single now. I’ve tried a thousand times to win his heart back, spent money I didn’t have, and even looked my best to impress him. But when he blows me off over and over again to hang out with his buddies, I realized I can no long hang on to this already gone relationship. It’s hard b/c you still think about what it used to be, or how they use to treat you and love you, and all of a sudden it’s done, and over with and you are still emotionally attached. But after 4 long weeks of tormenting my own emotions, breaking my own heart, and being a rediculous fool and begging him back and crying in front of him, I realized that I can’t put myself through that anymore, I can’t keep apologizing and thinking the worst of myself, I can’t keep holding onto the past, and regret for what I did or didn’t do to keep us together.

My only advice is that time will help your heal, you may still be in love, but you soon will not be hurting by the situation anymore. The worst thing that anyone can do is still be in love with someone that isn’t in love with you, and you have to move on b/c you have no choice. Don’t give yourself hope that one day he will come back, but give yourself hope that one day someone so wonderful will come into your life and mend your broken heart. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not in love with you, and I know it’s easier said then done, but tell yourself that life still goes on, and you have to find yourself again and be who you used to be before he broke your heart, or even before he came into your life. Talk with friends, get a second job, and everytime you think of him, think of being numb, don’t be around him, don’t talk or see him, b/c everytime I get close with my ex, I read into things and believe things that really don’t exist.
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