How do i get my boyfriend to be more communicative about what time he is coming home?
When he goes out I would like to know when he expects to be home, but he never tells me. I feel like a nag if I have to ask all the time. I feel like I have mentioned this to him but it’s like he just doesn’t do it. It would be nice if he would tell me and I could have dinner ready or something, but he doesn’t.
Help please.
Ok. First of all, Guys DON"T GET HINTS. If they say they do, theyr liars. Its not nagging, its courtousey. I would be infuriated if my man didn’t tell me when he was coming home or what he’s doing.
Sit him down and tell him, your not trying to control him, it would just be nice to know when he thinks he’ll be home so that you can have dinner ready or whatever else you do for him when he gets home.
I bet he wouldn’t like it if you took off without saying when you’d be home. So really, you just have to sit him down and tell him that… don’t be rude or controlling about it though that will backfire
Some men do that as a way to have control over the situation.
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Ok. First of all, Guys DON"T GET HINTS. If they say they do, theyr liars. Its not nagging, its courtousey. I would be infuriated if my man didn’t tell me when he was coming home or what he’s doing.
Sit him down and tell him, your not trying to control him, it would just be nice to know when he thinks he’ll be home so that you can have dinner ready or whatever else you do for him when he gets home.
I bet he wouldn’t like it if you took off without saying when you’d be home. So really, you just have to sit him down and tell him that… don’t be rude or controlling about it though that will backfire
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Men are very controling… they have to feel like they wear the pants… u need to show him who is boss!
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Have him text or call you like 45 minutes before getting home so you can prepare dinner, ask for a range of times he will be home instead of nailing it down to an exact time. It is hard to plan exact times in advance and not worth arguing about if he is just off some.
If you are asking him to change his life this drastically that he needs to let you know exactly when he will be getting home when you are just dating, what would he have to look forward to in a marriage with you?
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If he doesn’t want to let you know when he’ll be home, he obviously doesn’t want dinner ready when he walks in the door. You need to get a life beyond your need to provide him with dinner. When he goes out with his friends, why don’t you go out with yours? Then you’ll have something fun to do and won’t have to worry about his dinner anymore. Seriously, girl, you sound like you want to be his mother.
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