How Do I Get A Boyfriend In Middle School?
I’m about to middle school and I have yet to find a boyfriend! All my other friends have had one or have had a boy like them. HELP! Please no answers say ‘you’re too young’ or ‘ just because they have one doesn’t mean you need one’ because it’s complicated… Please help Thanks!
Really, please don’t. I have a friend just like you and unfortunately, she’s turned into somewhat like a slut. Drama girl, drama. She had so many boyfriends in 7th grade and in 8th, she slept with a gaggle of hot men. *winks* And she got herself an on-and-off boyfriend.
If you want a boyfriend, just hide it from your parents/ teachers and do NOT have sex with him. He’s a hormonal boy, so of course he’s gonna ask! Do NOT let him fondle you (even if it’s just playing beccause he will take it up one step further). Holding hands and kissing are alright though. Do NOT make out in class/ school because the teachers will not approve.
If you really want to pursue a guy, just find the one that you don’t mind talking to and siddle up to him (AKA be "friends"). Drive off the other girls, but don’t be too clingy and for god’s sake, do NOT giggle extensively like some tart. You have to build up the relationship though (so at least eighth grade).
Talk to him and if you share some personal interests/ hobbies, strike up a conversation about that (even if you don’t know anything about the subject). Just ask him something like, "So what do you like to do in your spare time?" It’s usually music, reading, manga, chatting, video games, and/ or sports.
But if you’re brave enough, just go up to a random guy and ask, "Do you wanna be my boyfriend?" Guys rarely say no if a girl just asked them out of the blue….
be yourself. is there a guy you like? if there is. be yourself. don’t do anything other people tell you like dress in tight clothing, or wear really shiny lip gloss, or always suck on a lollipop. i tried it. it didn’t work. find out what he likes and talk about that. if he likes football, then talk about the ravens vs. redskins game! this all worked for me. and now i am going out with a guy who is in his freshmen year at high school. i am going to be an 8th grader! wooh!
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Really, please don’t. I have a friend just like you and unfortunately, she’s turned into somewhat like a slut. Drama girl, drama. She had so many boyfriends in 7th grade and in 8th, she slept with a gaggle of hot men. *winks* And she got herself an on-and-off boyfriend.
If you want a boyfriend, just hide it from your parents/ teachers and do NOT have sex with him. He’s a hormonal boy, so of course he’s gonna ask! Do NOT let him fondle you (even if it’s just playing beccause he will take it up one step further). Holding hands and kissing are alright though. Do NOT make out in class/ school because the teachers will not approve.
If you really want to pursue a guy, just find the one that you don’t mind talking to and siddle up to him (AKA be "friends"). Drive off the other girls, but don’t be too clingy and for god’s sake, do NOT giggle extensively like some tart. You have to build up the relationship though (so at least eighth grade).
Talk to him and if you share some personal interests/ hobbies, strike up a conversation about that (even if you don’t know anything about the subject). Just ask him something like, "So what do you like to do in your spare time?" It’s usually music, reading, manga, chatting, video games, and/ or sports.
But if you’re brave enough, just go up to a random guy and ask, "Do you wanna be my boyfriend?" Guys rarely say no if a girl just asked them out of the blue….
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wtf does this have to do with this page like seriously?
I’m going through the EXACT same thing and looking for the EXACT same answer,too. Well, I came to this same site for the same thing you did so I need help too!!!! =P
hey girl, im in middle school. I have no boyfriend, I want one. The only reason I dont is one: I dont like anyone, two: im too shy. So overall if you want one there is two MAIN rules:
1. you MUST have someone in mind. Make sure you know him and he knows you. Dont ask him if you think you might not have a chance. Maybe if you dont know him a lot, maybe you will get lucky.
2. you have to come right out and ask him, dont be shy, be yourself, and dont be too much of a loud mouth. Remember dont wait for him to come to you, come to him. DO NOT ask them in an akward position though. Say you two have a conversation, and you stop talking for a bit, dont just blurt it out to break the silence, you need to get to know eachother more and once you have the perfect shot, go for it! Dont let that oppurtunity pass you by!
By the way, if you ask him out and he says no, dont sweat it, theres tons of more boys you will probably like, your only in middle school!
thanks.
I feel like im to ugly to have a boyfriend.. how do i make my self look pretty.
Please Help
just be confedentin yourself
you are too ugly. Because you’re ugly inside. If you keep thinking you’re ugly like that then you will never get a boyfriend. Guys like Proud, honest to themselves kinds of girls. You can’t be too full of yourself, but you have to believe in yourself and that you can get guys.
get.
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life.
bitch.
done.
that is so me. have you got an ansure?
ya i agreejust be your self i have a boyfriend and i am in 7th grade we have been going out for 3 years now and has had a lot of fun
Well your are dumb and have no life so stop bloging and get a LIFE!!!!!
rude much god their a bunch of hormonal girls geez they can blog as much as they want.jerk
hey like u need to think about thingslike that
really u need to come down n be seriously like come on
@Bobby and @Kyar, wow, culd u guys be any meaner? Seriously, she asked a fucking question, you dumbasses need to get out of the conversation and leave her alone. Bitches. Go get tweezers and a microscope so you can attempt to jack off.
How do i get a boyfried without meh parents findin out about him
my ex just broke up with me for my best friend so i know how it feels for everything and all the sudden my best friend is calling me the school slut :/ all bc i hvae a massive crush on a hot guy two grades above me wtf so to get a boy to like you dress cute makeup (sometimes) and be your self tht is if u nice and flirt by laughing at his jokes and if u have lockers next to each other then mess up him combination and try to close his locker in a nice laughing way though and if he doesnt get the clues i usually walk up to him and come right out and say it “i like you” then walk away and give him some space then after a couple days start sitting by him at lunch also there are alot of boys now wearing fox,DC,monster, or tapout hats sneak it off them and wear it and their football jacket if their on the football team alright bye people
hey if i dont like a guy but want a bf then what should i do? my mom said that i should join a club but i kindof want to sit with him at lunch and crap. should i get an older guy like a freshman so we ccan go to skool next year or join a club like my mom sujested?
Hi my name is makayla and I’m in 7th grade my life hurts badly I was wondering if someone out their can help me get a boyfriend my opion is that I’m to ugly and fat so I was wondering if someone could give me advice plzzzz HELP!!!!!