How Do I Get A Boyfriend In Middle School?
I’m about to middle school and I have yet to find a boyfriend! All my other friends have had one or have had a boy like them. HELP! Please no answers say ‘you’re too young’ or ‘ just because they have one doesn’t mean you need one’ because it’s complicated… Please help Thanks!
Really, please don’t. I have a friend just like you and unfortunately, she’s turned into somewhat like a slut. Drama girl, drama. She had so many boyfriends in 7th grade and in 8th, she slept with a gaggle of hot men. *winks* And she got herself an on-and-off boyfriend.
If you want a boyfriend, just hide it from your parents/ teachers and do NOT have sex with him. He’s a hormonal boy, so of course he’s gonna ask! Do NOT let him fondle you (even if it’s just playing beccause he will take it up one step further). Holding hands and kissing are alright though. Do NOT make out in class/ school because the teachers will not approve.
If you really want to pursue a guy, just find the one that you don’t mind talking to and siddle up to him (AKA be "friends"). Drive off the other girls, but don’t be too clingy and for god’s sake, do NOT giggle extensively like some tart. You have to build up the relationship though (so at least eighth grade).
Talk to him and if you share some personal interests/ hobbies, strike up a conversation about that (even if you don’t know anything about the subject). Just ask him something like, "So what do you like to do in your spare time?" It’s usually music, reading, manga, chatting, video games, and/ or sports.
But if you’re brave enough, just go up to a random guy and ask, "Do you wanna be my boyfriend?" Guys rarely say no if a girl just asked them out of the blue….
be yourself. is there a guy you like? if there is. be yourself. don’t do anything other people tell you like dress in tight clothing, or wear really shiny lip gloss, or always suck on a lollipop. i tried it. it didn’t work. find out what he likes and talk about that. if he likes football, then talk about the ravens vs. redskins game! this all worked for me. and now i am going out with a guy who is in his freshmen year at high school. i am going to be an 8th grader! wooh!
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Really, please don’t. I have a friend just like you and unfortunately, she’s turned into somewhat like a slut. Drama girl, drama. She had so many boyfriends in 7th grade and in 8th, she slept with a gaggle of hot men. *winks* And she got herself an on-and-off boyfriend.
If you want a boyfriend, just hide it from your parents/ teachers and do NOT have sex with him. He’s a hormonal boy, so of course he’s gonna ask! Do NOT let him fondle you (even if it’s just playing beccause he will take it up one step further). Holding hands and kissing are alright though. Do NOT make out in class/ school because the teachers will not approve.
If you really want to pursue a guy, just find the one that you don’t mind talking to and siddle up to him (AKA be "friends"). Drive off the other girls, but don’t be too clingy and for god’s sake, do NOT giggle extensively like some tart. You have to build up the relationship though (so at least eighth grade).
Talk to him and if you share some personal interests/ hobbies, strike up a conversation about that (even if you don’t know anything about the subject). Just ask him something like, "So what do you like to do in your spare time?" It’s usually music, reading, manga, chatting, video games, and/ or sports.
But if you’re brave enough, just go up to a random guy and ask, "Do you wanna be my boyfriend?" Guys rarely say no if a girl just asked them out of the blue….
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