How do get your boyfriend to kiss you for the first time?

Posted in How to get boyfriend back by Admin on January 25, 2010 210 Comments

I am in 6th grade so is my boyfriend we have been dating for three years and he still hasn’t kissed me! Can you give me tips to get him in the mood? PLEASE HELP!

You are too young! He probably isn’t ready. Why don’t you just talk to him about it if you really want him to kiss you or just kiss him.

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  • soccerchixrule:

    Im hveing the same prob w/ my bf….. his best girl-friend keeps telling him to kiss me and it put driggen metal butterdlys in my stomach….. mayne hea just prude not to be mean but mine ia bur i still luv him8) just tell him wen ur alone togethr and its a awkward silence or ur looking at him just look him in the eyes and say kiss me

  • Alix damon:

    Me and my boyfriend r both in the fith grade and we have known each other for a little longer than a year. We have gone out for a while now and we admitt we r boyfriend and girlfriend. He is about to move to San Antonio and I’m going to miss he.why hasen’t he kissed me?

  • Lydibugg:

    I am having the same prob. im in 6th grade and me and my boyfirned have been going out for almost a month now and i really wanns kiss him but im not sure how i get him to do it. :P help

    • Alyssa:

      Well i’m about a year older so I have a little bit more experince… Ask him if he wants to hang out.. Or go skating etc… If you are both shy go some where where you are both alone…. To make sure you are both happy. Wile you are together and when you hug kiss him on the cheek.. he’ll like that! Then when he has to go when you hug each other wisper in his ear “kiss me”…. and it should work or plan when u both want the kiss to happen…! Well i hope this helps!!! Email me for more advice i’ll be happy to help!!

    • christina:

      i had my first kiss when i’m in the 6th grade (im in the 6th grade now), if really want him to kiss u and he is the type of boy who is shy, just ask him whether he wants to be kissed b the girls he likes, if he is not shy at all, just say u want a kiss, be brave and if u need, make the first move or just give him hints,good luck hope this works for u like it did to me

    • christina:

      give him hints, if it doesnt work, try straight forward and tell him u want to be kissed, be brave, sometimes girls need to make the first move, it worked on me, and i hope it worked on u (ps. im also in the 6th grade)

  • lindsey:

    ask him do you want to kiss me don’t worry i have a boyfriend and i’m the same age as you and thats how i got my boyfriend of one year to kiss me.
    just be straight forward with him if he says no say it’s ok and you can wait and it’ll happen when the times right

  • nicholle:

    me and my boyfriend are both in the eighth grade and have been together for 3 months. we still have not kissed yet. i have tried to persuade him, but he said no. he even admitted that he was a little nervous. what can i do to make him kiss me?

    • Ellie:

      i had a simaler problam ,im in 7th grade and hes in 8th grade , on facebook i talked to him all the time and we even made plans and he said we where going to kiss then but he diddnt , he was to embaresed to tell his mates about us and finaly i just wanted to kiss, so when we where walkin to school i said 2kiss me ” and i took his hand and we had a realy passiont kiss , dont be afraid to make the first move , i wasnt and im madly in love

    • NeNe:

      Make him comfortable. Tell him if you are nervous also. Let him no that he will never get over being nervous unless he kisses you.

      Hope I helped:D

    • christina:

      make the first move, tell him that u are also nervous, but say to him that maybe its not gonna be worst then u guys think it would be, then kiss him first, dont get nervous and be brave, u need to be brave for the both of u, (ps im only in he 6th grade but i had my first kiss, this works)

  • Cici:

    Ok girl, i just started going out on Thanksgiving evening and
    We are absolutely happy…. Im 13, he asked me what kind
    Of relationship i preferred…fast or slow? I told him i didnt care.
    So he chose fast…. Which means we start kissing early on
    In our relationship… He wants to kiss me.. Now u want ur bf
    To kiss you, i know just what you should do!
    U wanna ask him to maybe go for a walk to the park
    Or whereever u pick; hold hands… Then, what u should do
    Is (my friend Abby tried this n it actually worked!!)
    Is get close to his face n make up an excuse to get really close
    To his lips… Say, “oh u have something under ur eye.” n lean in n while
    Your “inspecting” his eye, kiss him.. :) hop it helps!!

  • kissandtell:

    k first of all…your all in elementary school. you dont know what love is! dont waste your first kiss on some lame ass boy. and seriously your like 10 and 11 you have years until you can be kissed so keep it in your pants for a while.

  • Hannah:

    I’m in 7th and I have been dating my bf 4 almost 4 months u should worry there will be a time when he is ready believe me

  • I am also and 6th grade and so if my bf
    I gave him a hint of what I wanted for Xmas (kiss) he caught on pretty well and now ik exactly what I am getting. try this or tell him tht what u want he can not buy but must give
    hopefully he will get the memo

    best of luck!!!
    o and maybe not french for the frist kiss (jst a tip)

    and no bad breathe!!

    :)

  • shayla:

    I’m in 6th qrade and my bf iss shy. But we do hug a lot and we kissed on the phone but it is just people is always in our buisness. He has told me he love me and also. In frount of tthe gorl that lile him and I saod I love you too and we huged but I want a kiss sometimes ilove him very much we’ve been together for two mounths help mee

  • This really helped and i think i might use the tips cuz i do really LOVE my bf skyler

  • nikole:

    Well i am in 6th grade too and ive been dating my bf for 2 weeks and weve liked eachother for 8 months so yea i told him i am giving him a Xmas Gift with my lips so he got the memo and he told me i would love to when so i said Monday and it is Sunday Right Now So im gonna kiss Him tomorrow not french and NO BAD BREATH BTW

  • I’m a 10 and in 5th grade I do Martial Arts with him and I really like him. I want him to like me back, make a move, like a kiss. He is cute but I don’t know what to do? I need advice like should I ask if he has a cel phone, beacause he’s my age?

  • Sarah:

    you guys are so young dont wast you first kiss its something special i got my first kiss at the vey end of 8th grade and even now i wish i would have waited.

  • coolcat:

    Last week my friend told me that my boyfriend cheated on me by making this mother f***ing b**** pregnant. I asked the b**** if it was true and she said yes in a tone that sounds like shes been hypnotysed.my boyfriend is my neighbor. What do you think I should do kill him kick him in the tectacles kill the baby while its inside of her or let them deal with the kid until they want to die?

  • Daisy:

    My boyfriend have been going out for like 1 month and i want to kiss him.Bt its hard becausehe’s not allowed to dat so he doesnt want a whole bunch of people knowing because if his friends know they will tell his parents. We’ve held hands and hugged but thats pretty much it. Oh and by the way im in 7th grade.

    • tye's sweethart :):

      same here i am in 7th grade 2 and i have been dating my bf for about a year an a half. All we ever do is hold hands. I give him hints and everything, but he still doesn’t get it. I will be 14 soon and it feels like my life is flying by.

  • Kate:

    I am in the eighth grade and have had a boyfriend for around four months and he still hasn’t kissed me. We’ve held hands and stuff but i don’t know how to make it so he’ll kiss me or the other way around! never done this before!

  • XxAjAngelxX:

    Me andd my bf started going out yesterday… Lol.. He MIGHT want to kiss you… He probably thinks that would be too much foward but just be cnfident and ask him on text/call. That’s how I found out my crush liked me Lol. It’s like i’m more confident texting/calling -,-

  • Bubbles:

    Me and my bf have been dating for 10 months and he wont do anything unless someone tells him to and irealy love him

    • kitten:

      I think texting and calling is the wrong approach and if you need someone to tell your boyfriend to kiss you, then it should be you. Tell him! or if you get the right opportunity, then you kiss him. go for it!!!

    • Just get close to him&tell him how u feel ano my jack told me he loved me&we went out for like 20 mins but I love him so just be honest babe:)xxxxxxx

    • i:

      hey chickits ok i really luv my bf 2 and i am in 6th grade and he wont kiss me but i know wwe should wait cuz today he told me how much i mean 2 him and it made me cry cuz i didnt believe it but when i asked his mom she gave me a note that had a poem fo me dat she found on his floor and i read it and right thn and there but my piont is save ur kiss fo someone special and dont lose yo virginaty till yo married

  • hersheykiss:

    My boyfriend and I are in the 8th grade and have been dating for about 6 months. He usually makes the first move and holds my hand and hugs me and stuff but i really want him to kiss me. We haven’t had too many opportunities lately but we are working on a project together so it’s getting close. Any advice please?

  • Alicia:

    I had the same prob.
    my friend went up to my bf and asked him if he was ever goin to kiss me and he said IDK, and then my friend told him he should so he said okay. then that friday we went to a school (not a dance but I don’t know what else to call it)”dance” and he pulled me aside and we sneaked out. then when we were alone he put his arms around my waist and i put my arms around his neck and we kissed.
    it felt like in the movies.
    adivce: ask your friend to put in a word for you. maybe he needs a little push

  • lolz!:

    IM having problems to ! i really want him to kiss me … we have talked about it … and he said that it should come natrually ….. i really want to kiss him too and im in the 6th grade too .

  • my boyfriend is crazy for me and his friends make fun of him when im around. and i feel like i need to kiss him because he is amazing. I JUST NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    IF YOU CAN HELP PLEASE SAY SOMETHING

    • julia:

      OMG I’m having that same problem with my bf, his friends pick on him in the morning while walking in to school! We have been going out for two mounths and I want him to make the first move but I don’t know how to give him a hint with out it being weird! I’m in 6th grade and I need help!!!

  • lolababi:

    if you are in 5 or 6th grade, you shouldnt even have a bf….you are not in love after 2 weeks!!! im in high school and i have had relationships where the guy wouldnt even hold my hand in public and others where he tried making out with me in the hallways. I PROMISE THERE WILL BE PLENTY OF TIME FOR KISSING AND SUCH LATER ON IN LIFE, BUT ENJOY BEING YOUNG, CUZ UR GONNA MISS IT!!

    • Brett's Babygurll:

      I agree with you. When I was in 5th and 6th grade i barely even relized the boys. I waited untill I found the right person AFTER being a child

  • Luving gf!!:

    i have the same problem see i really like my boyfriend he really likes me. since we r in diff. classes we talk a bunch at p.e. and its really sweet and i think we both want to kiss each other but im scared and really want him to. advice please!!!! really need some!

  • leuren:

    i want my bf to kiss me to but i dont know how to do it for the first time can enyone help plz please please

  • Cassidy+Will:

    me and my bf have been datin for almost 11 months.today he hugged me. thx to my bff. i rely wanna kiss him. but idk if im ready. idk if hes ready to kiss me. wt if he is? if he is hes probably waitin for the perfect timing. i hope thats soon!

  • Leann:

    me and my bf have dated for 3 weeks and 4 days wednesday it will be a month or 4 weeks and i get urges to kiss him and does arms rapped around the waist mean anything because he does it alot now…. also im scared to kiss him although i really want to kiss him plus how do i “reel” him in?
    email my anwser @ lnreed99@gmail.com
    also put the anwser on here for other peeps sake and btw im 13 in 7th grade. ‹3 Lee Lee :)

  • I’m p5 there not to young so is Myy bf all I did was talk to him&cuddle&hold his hand&i didn’t care who was there because I love him:)

  • There not to young I’m p5 so is my bbbey&all I did was cuddle him hold his hand&i didnt care if his pals were there:)

  • Me and my bf have been going out for a year and we been off and on we r in the 6th grad and we don’t do nun at school Iall we do is txt on the phone that’s it help me Cu’s I don’t know if he wont to kiss me or what…. but I wont to go to the next level with him

  • My bf won’t kiss me and I’m freaking out afraid he doesn’t like me plz HELP ME! Btw I’m 13

  • Me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and he is shy and goes slow in a relationship, we have hugged infront of other ppl, and i have kissed him on the cheek twice but he has never kissed me back. Even if it was on the cheek i still want him too. I dont really wanna tell him to kiss me cuz i dont want him to think that he has to. We have both told eachother that we love eachother and i have tried dropping hints but he dosent get them, i love him sooo much can anybody help me?:(

  • You guys are so cute! I’m a juniour in high school, 16 now. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. One year of that was spent with positively no kissing at all! We loved eachother enough, it just didn’t seem so important. You all seem to have been in that stage for a while. I promise though, you both will know when the time is right. You should get him alone, you both will feel more confident and intimate that way. If you feel comfortable, lay your head on his shoulder, and while doing that, look up in his eyes for a minute. Then slowly lift your head up to look at him from an angle. He’ll get the idea. If not, throw a quick glance down to his lips and back up to his eyes, then lean. It comes very naturally, it’ll happen when it’s time. Good luck(:I

  • Namoe328:

    all right, all you young people! there’s no rush here! i’m in the eighth grade and have yet to have ever had a bf!!! chill! you guys have years and years! you will find someone perfect that will sweep you off your feet! you’ll know when the time is right! its instict, trust me!

  • Morgann:

    Me and my boyfriend, Matt, have been going out since Valentines Day. He had broken up with this girl, Kim, and had kissed her at our shcools Friday Fun Nights. that was 2 weeks into their relatonship….. I STILL HAVENT KISSED HIM! HELP PLZ

  • Hey my bf and I are going on 3 months iv tried to give him hints and well I duno it docent seem to work he says he loves me when he drops me off at my house or over at CFK for my mom to pick me up but I duno when the time is really right. I know… When he hugs me goodbye it’s like there’s a pause and nothing happens I just wish that the day would come and the time is right he will kiss me. I mean I know all the teachers have seen us walk out of the building holding hands and they have seen me and him hug. I know mrs house my math teacher thinks it’s Hallarious when he holds my book bag for me. I just wish that sometimes him and I were alone once and he would just look in my eyes and lean in and meet my lips. Worse thing is we have no classes together and I barely see him around school and like I just wish somebody could help.

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