How do get your boyfriend to kiss you for the first time?

Posted in How to get boyfriend back by Admin on January 25, 2010 210 Comments

I am in 6th grade so is my boyfriend we have been dating for three years and he still hasn’t kissed me! Can you give me tips to get him in the mood? PLEASE HELP!

You are too young! He probably isn’t ready. Why don’t you just talk to him about it if you really want him to kiss you or just kiss him.

Comments
  • Joy :D:

    My brother,his friend and me all went to new york for the weekend we were watching a movie with the lights off my brother went to the toliet i turned around and the next thing i knew my brothers friend was kissing me now were together so my sugestion is just do something awkward get in the room by ur selves then just kiss him youll thank me later

  • Hey i’m in the 9th grade nd i asked a girl to be my G/F and she said ok, were madely in love and its just been a month, but the problem is i never got to go on a date or even meet wid her with privacy. So what do u think i should do?

    • Harleigh:

      I think you should just go up to her and look into her eyes and kiss her unexpectically when things slow down trust me it will work :)

    • zay shivers:

      ask her to go to the movies or something thats what i did ”nd btw im a girl…

    • TT:

      you should ask her for her phone number and tell her where to meet a day on the weekend try this and all your plan will work

  • Harleigh:

    I think you should just walk up to her look her in her bright eyes and kiss her when things start to slow down like at the mall or a movie or just hanging out

  • Angie:

    Okay,so my boyfriend asked me out about a month ago (were both in 6th grade) and all we ever did was hug! I really want him to kiss me on the cheek,but he never gives me a sign or anything!!! Please help me :(

    • My name is oo look a pony:

      YOU give him signs maybe he will make the move:) just wait

    • Alyssa:

      Well not to be rude but your only 11 or 12! I’m 13 and me and my boyfriend kissed on my birthday:) now its your turn!! First off when you hug YOU mae the first move and kiss him on the cheek… or wisper in his ear “kiss me” and see what happens your first kiss will make your relationship WAY stronger!! I should know!! Hope this helps!! email me for more advice!:)

  • Don’t be scared but give it some time make sure he is ok with it don’t force it let it happen you will know when he is ready and you are ready:)

  • me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago and i miss so bad he is now going out with my friends big sister
    do anyone any tips for me

    • young nikki:

      Look what you have to do is just give him a call or when you see him and you pass by or sumtin nd he is with his girlfried just look at him and dnt make it creepy like ur statong just like make eye contact with him nd then smile at himnd when u round him make sure u look gudd ndmake it dnt make it seem tht u want him back u want him to think why the hell did i break up with her

    • jaks:

      Just tell him you have feelings for him and if he just ignores you just make sure you have a sleepover,party or whatever and invite him! if he shows up then tell him how you feel or what you think about him the thing is you will find a perfect guy for you someday

    • if u love him let him go if he comes back hes urs

  • Bradsgirl:

    First of all ur too young

  • Carly:

    hi :) you r NOT to young, trust me im the same age and im gunna try and kiss my bf for the frist time on fridayy

  • Woah:

    Me and my b/f have been dating for a while and he still wont kiss me. we havent gone on a date and at school he wont hang around me all he does is stare at me alot. what should i do?

    • My name is oo look a pony:

      if he wont hang out with you at school then you walk over there and you hang out with him (if you are to nervous then ask one of your friends to go with you)

    • loveydove:

      I toatally think you should kiss him. If you’ ve been his girlfriend for a long time and he still hasen’ t kissed you kiss him yourself dont wait for it

  • Dude, sixth and fifth and seventh is not too young. But make sure the guy Is at least the slightest bit mature. I want my boyfriend to kiss me too!!

  • megan:

    well look in his eyes alot or look at his lips alot and give him hints that you wanna kiss him k good luck :)

    • Alyssa:

      So i have been dating this guy for about 2 yrs and we hug(sometimes) and we havent hung out in like 2 months. He texted me yesterday tht he was gonna try to “kiss” me today at lunch and well he avoided me all day. then again my BFF hates his guts. And kinda protects me a lil’ too much. they are both guys so, What do i do to calm my friend down and get my bf to kiss me 4 real.

  • jeana:

    i am in 6th grade and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 years sience preschool and he wont kiss me but i saw him KISSING ANOTHER GIRL THAT IS ONLY IN 5TH GRADE!!!!!!!!! what do i do to get him to kiss ME!!!!!!?????

    • ummmm darlin he was cheating !!!!

    • Melissa:

      ask him why he kissed another girl and make a move after he tells you why then he proberly wont ever kiss her again after he knows that your a better kisser than her

    • Young&Cashh:

      If you saw him kissing another girl. He is not worth kissing. Sorry to break it to you.

    • jessica:

      thats cuz he’s immature and preshool you didnt even know what dating was

    • My name is oo look a pony:

      first of all i would have broke up with him second look at his lips and eyes alot or if u want to u can just tell him to kiss you!

    • Aqua:

      Jeana, if he was kissing another girl then why do you still want him to kiss you? Why dont you dump him? If you are still his girlfriend and he does kiss you, do you want to know that the kiss is not fresh because he kissed another girl? You probably dont want to break up but I would if it was me.

      Hope you find happiness.

    • olivia:

      kiss him dont wait if hes a cheater make him want u instead of her im in the 7th grade and i have a bf and i kissed him first it works trust me

    • Ellie:

      jeana- break up with him

      If he is kissing other girls he isn’t good enought for you!

    • kassidy:

      Well im in the 7th and if you saw your boyfriend kissing another girl then obviously hes cheating on you. So, you should dump his ass but make sure its clear why your dumping him and try to let other girls know so he dosent do it to them.

    • Alyssa:

      WOW 8 years is a long time!! hug him and wisper “kiss me”… it worked for me:) good luck email me tell me if he kisses you ill give you more advise bec im 14 ik alot! araup098@gmail.com

  • blah blah:

    woahhhh! 8 years geez! well anyways break up with him girl! i mean if he’s kissing another girl then u guys definetely shouldn’t be going out unless he has a very good explanation :)

  • Rockursocks:

    So my bf and i have been dating for almost 3 months and weve kissed already but whenever we hang out with our friends they’re always like “oh just get it over with” and stuuff like that… How can i kiss him without having them bother us???? HHEELLPP!!!!!

    • hey i wanna kiss my crush so badly and i adore him like i wanna kiss him from his cheak and mouth and im a girl and i adore him alot and i wanna kiss him all what u have to do is look at his lips be closer to him and look at his eyes then lips and grab him and kiss him and dont be shy and do it in front of people and if they bothered u just say get out of my way i wanna kisss my boyfriend suckers haha lol im kidding just hold ur boyfriends hand and run to a closet and kiss him

  • Shayla:

    well im in the 6th grade 2 and im going on a date with boyfriend next weekend well not alone but to the movies with him my bestfriend and his friend but i want him to kiss really bad but i dont want to just lean in a get to close to him becouse if somthing does ever happen with us i dont want it to hurt me sooo wat do i do…..?

  • Melissa:

    I have a boyfriend wev’e been together for just over a month now he always comes to my house and we just talk and sit and hug always tells me he loves me and he always asks to kiss me but i dont know how to kiss please hellllpppp

  • Just tell him how you feel I’m shore he will understand that’s wat I did nd it worked

  • Kelly_Marie:

    Ok, First if your boyfriend is shy then lets say “scared” to kiss you then you make the first move. I know guys are suppose to make the first move but go a head! Or another way u and ur bf are like head to head, back away a little bit,stare at his lips and eyes,then kiss him. I know how you feel my bf…well…one time we were head to head and i just kept on hugging him..DONT WORRY! this is gonna work. or one more way is to tell him that you want to kiss him but then for most people that was akward. If you have anymore questions email me at cookies1921@hotmail.com I hope this was useful if not emial me! i can help! :)

  • Lolamathes:

    I had my first kiss in seventh grade and i really regret it… But tht was last year, and mah new boi is shy bit I remeber how I hated my first kiss and imma wait fir him to b less shy when we hang out

  • kate :))):

    i need serious help im like most of u guys my bf wont kiss me we hangout but not a lot he told his bestfriend that he wants to but he wont make a move and i just dont no :( im so confused and im pretty much one of all my friends that havent kiss mine. HELP!! ;(

  • Ok I have Ben dating this amazing guy for 4 years and he still hasn’t kissed me any advice on how to get him to kiss me

  • jessie:

    Dude 8 years and your only in 6th grade and you saw HIIM KISSIN anotheer girll than iits time for you to get a new guy becasue he only wants to get in bed with you.. trust me ive been used like that before and he broke my heart… btw ima girrl. hope this helped love yall! <3

  • Chrissy:

    Ok. You guys are to young. You should wait until atleast your in 7th/8th grade, or until he hits puberty.

  • Kayla:

    I am in the 7th grade and me and my bf havent even kissed yet and weve been dating for 4 years now and i want him to kiss me but i am to nervous but he wont make the first move and ive tried staring him in he eyes and the lips trick and he hasnt even got a clue i even told him i want to kiss him but he said hes afriad he ll get introuble by his parents what do i do?? :(

  • M girl:

    me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and i want to go to the moves with him, his cousin and his cousins’s boyfriend. And i was thinking about me and him kissing for me n his very first time. We are going into 7th grade.I wanna do it before the summer ends.
    i really wanna do it soon
    Any help?
    M girl

  • olivia:

    kiss him if hes a chaeter make him want u insted of her

  • boo:

    Im in 6th grade and my boyfreind is to. but when ever i try to go talk to him a friend is always around and i never get to ask when we kiss i dont what to do it’s my first boyfriend sooooooo HELP ME PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ IM DESPERATE

  • Madison:

    Me and my boyfriend went on a date the other day.He kept getting closer and closer but wouldnt kiss me What do i do??

  • T-BAG #2:

    I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HER TO GO TO A MOVIE AND ABOUT THREE QUARTERS OF THE WAY THROUGH THE MOVIE PUT YOUR ARM AROUND HER AND IF SHE DOESNT PUT HERS AROUND YOU AND SHES STARING AND SMILING AT YOU THEN, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR KISS HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • koko:

    i got a new b/f and i havent kiss him what can i do????i need helpp???

  • ilovethewayyoulie:

    my boyfriend asked me out 2 months ago i said yes but he doesnt act like a real boyfriend everytime i want to talk to him he gets scared and walks away and i want to kiss him and we are both in 6th grade and we have liked each other since 5th grade but tell me wat do i do for him to act like my boyfriend and him to kiss me in the lips

  • RileyRoo:

    you 6th graders are so funny… wait until u r at least in 7th grade… im in 8th grade….. k so this really cute kid asked me out after school and i think that we r going to kiss tomorrow… should i wait longer then 3 days to kiss a guy? and his ex is really jealous…and askes me what his every move is… he broke up with her for me(: should i tell her what he does?

    love ya

    • Tiffany:

      Ok, so you should totally make a move on him in front of his ex to let her know he is over her and he is yours! you don’t ever need to wait for a guy to kiss you. I kissed my bf when we went to the mall with his and my friends and we were alone in the photo booth! I am in 8th grade too and im not too young!

  • Hi my name is kaylen davidson and im in 6th grade and my boyfriend is in 7th grasde and me and him are talking about kissing and he wont kiss me anad we have been dateing for 7yares now and he still hasent kiss me yet..PLEASE HELP ME

  • HOW DO I GET MY BOYFRIEND TO KISS ME FOR THE FRIST TIME

  • Yana:

    Well…i m in 8th grade… i hv a bf from 8 1/2 months….v hv gone for a date twice…can u believe it… 8 months n gone out only twice…plz help me… he kissed me a lot in these 2 dates…but i wnt more… :( help me plz…

  • Chococat13:

    Well take it slow but the way you can tell is if his pupils dial-ate when you look into his eyes and remember the most important thing is to have fun in your realationship!

  • Chococat13:

    i need help becuz i got a boyfriend and all we do is hug help!

  • yammi:

    me and my boyfriend have been dating for what will be a month thursday oh were in 9th grade btw and i really want im to kiss me i mean his friends say he wants to but he doesnt show it or anything im so lost

    • you need to contact him somehow and organize a date by yourself so that youre alone and when the moments right kiss him unless he already kissed you on the date.i think hes shy or afraid to mess it up and be embarrassed.

  • brixx:

    Me and my bf have been dating for about a month.I really love him and
    I have kissed him before but I was just 4. I think im going to kiss him 2maro! Any tips?

    ps,
    im 11

  • ttnuine(fake name):

    I use to like tht boy and he like me too one day i add 1 first he add 1 first lunch too so he told my friend tht he like me he want to go out with me so one of them was about to tell me what he say so he was like no dont tell her so i heard him and i told one of the girl tht i like him the the girl tell him tht so he think tht i the girl was lying so he was like it tht truth tht u like me i was like yes. so we go out but i hug him and he shy to talk but we always text each other on the phone so i want to kiss him and he want to kiss me too both of us are shy what do you think i should do please tell me what do you think i should do.

  • boo:

    HELP MEHHHH!!! ive been gng out w/ this guy for a month and all we do is hug! i asked my friend to ask him if he wnt sto kiss me but she wnt tell me his answer…..im in 7th grade and all my other bfs kissed me?? i dnt get it!! HElp meh

  • heyy what up guys and the best thing to do if you want your boyfriend to kiss you and you are in the 6th or 5th grade you should go to him wispeer in his ear and tell him to come here and thats when he will probaly get the idea or you will have to kiss him yoursels and if you have to do that its ok it’s normal trust me u will thank me if this dosent work try emailing me at dannell_shardnay @hotmail.com see ya call me text me hahahahahahaha kidding lol you guys dont have my number i hope lolxz just kidding lolxz see ya latter lov yall byee byee and ine more thing that will help if your scared take a deep breath and just ask him to carry you and if he does turn to him and kiss himm byee byee love yall always and forever lolxz i love saying lolxz im so laughable lolxz lolz you will love to be around me and im not kidding lolxz and if you guys ever get into an argument just say i love you and just say lets stop arguing and love the life that we have while while have it. lolxz bye bye love yall. By Shardnay Dannell bye

  • miah:

    ok so heres the deal, ive been dating this really amazing guy for a month now-im in 8th grade- and he wont kiss me, he got really close but stopped, his friend told me itz cos he doesnt kno if i wanna kiss him and i do but i donnt wanna just say that so wat do i do

  • bitty:

    i am in 7th grade and my boyfriend’s mom will not let him kiss me… what should i do, to have him kiss me.

  • Izzy1987:

    This is ridiculous you are not to young not at all what you have to do is be honest and just say to him

    We have been dating three years and im ready to take a step forward please can we have our first kiss if he says no just dont talk to him for about a day and then he should come around GOODLUCK

  • Hayley:

    Hey my names Hayley and there is this boy in my school and I have a mega crush on him but I don’t know if he likes me but I really want to kiss him but I’m shy I’m in 4th grade

  • I Need Help!I ve already had my chance to kiss my bf but I was soo nervious that i was about to faint but Inever got that kiss.I ve asked my bf if he wanted to kiss me and he answered yes (by the way I m in 5th grade but we started dating in 4th) I keep trying but I get NERVIOUS. It s just that he s sooo cute,hot,and dreamy that I think I ll mess up SOOO BAD that he ll never like me again and to him I ll be known as SUCKO KISSO or something like that.PLEASE HELP MY REALATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Kailyn:

    I am in 5th grade and I have already kissed my boyfriend. What you should do is go somewhere where no one is around. Before you do that just ask your boyfriend if he wants to kiss you. If he says yes than stare into each others eyes and lean closer and closer until you kiss him. Good Luck!

  • paige:

    hes neva gonna kiss u most likely

  • plz help!:

    im in 6th grade and ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now, he kissed me last year when he walked me home but now i never see him alone cuz i take a bus and theres always people around. he hugs me and stuff but how do i get him to kiss me again?!? hlp me ;(

    • all you have to do is A.on the last day of school(if hes there)plan to meet him somewhere like the park have a meal together.Then when nobody is looking kiss him.or B.just quickly kiss him on the bus.Either way youll still get that kiss.I guaentee it.

1 2 3
Leave a Comment