How do get your boyfriend to kiss you for the first time?

Posted in How to get boyfriend back by Admin on January 25, 2010 180 Comments

I am in 6th grade so is my boyfriend we have been dating for three years and he still hasn’t kissed me! Can you give me tips to get him in the mood? PLEASE HELP!

You are too young! He probably isn’t ready. Why don’t you just talk to him about it if you really want him to kiss you or just kiss him.

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  • Sarah:

    u had a bf in 4th grade?
    ok 4th and 5th grade dont count
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    • christie:

      Its ok to have a boyfriend in fourth grade i have a boy and its march we have been together since yr 2 but we havent kissed gotta wait till next year then were allowed

  • Sarah:

    go for it. Don’t ever let yourself wait on a man
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  • Deborah R:

    Because he is still young, and is not ready to kiss yet.
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  • BeeN a DorK:

    JUST KISS HIM..or tell him to kiss you already…take charge for a change…
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  • *cOTTenCAnDii*:

    watch a movie in his basement with the laights offf!!!!!! that will prolly help!!!
    did fo me!
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  • arvin c:

    6th grade? you are pretty young. but anyways tell/ask him. "Hey kiss me." my girlfriend asked me and i was like okay. :]
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  • Miranda:

    say:
    Are you ever going to kiss me or are you just gonna sit there?
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    • IM ALITTLE SCARED ITS BAD ENOUGH HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM AND I FEEL LIKE I JUST WANT TO KISS HIM

      • why is it bad he knows you love him if he dosnt know then he mite not fell like u like him enough and nothin is stronger then love.i tould my bf i love him and now he calls me every day and tells me he loves me if i didnt tell him i love him then idk where id be today

  • Carter,:

    Just take his head and kiss him and if he pulls away..then so be it. If the only way to do it is by force, then go for it.
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  • ptrobrn:

    You do know how to kiss don’t you… you just put your lips together and blow… no wait thas wistle not kiss… sorry bogart your quote doesn’t work here.
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  • Lola:

    wow you’re young. You could ask him? Maybe he isn’t ready.

    I dated a guy in middle school, this was in the 90′s and we didn’t kiss. I was nervous and not ready and obviously neither was he.

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  • cupcakequeen@sbcglobal.net:

    you kiss him!!

    if you want something to happen, then make it happen!
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  • d:

    you started dating in 3rd grade! ok girl you need to chill!!!!!!!!!
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  • Miss Frannn x:

    3 years..jeezzzzzzzzzzzzz!
    Maybe u should lean him spontaniously and kiss him.
    Actually make that definatly…
    good luck..x
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  • therealdemilovato:

    Um sweetheart. u have been dateing since 3rd grade? 8 years old? u r too younge to be kissing. Maybe he has since not to do it!

    well good luck
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    • ACTUALLY IM NINE GOING ON TEN GOING TO FITH GRADE I YEA BUT HE MIGHT JUST NOT ITERESTED BUT HE IS MY BEST FREND AND HE HAD MY BACK I DONNO LIKE MY 3 YEARS AND HE CARES FOR ME AND I DO FOR HIM TOO BUT I MIGHT B JUST TOO YOUNG

  • ***ice cream***:

    he probably thinks you guys are too young
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    • Baby_girl66:

      No u go and kiss him I did wit my boyfriend and in in the same grade as you and yikes it turned like idk not pretty it turned into sex

  • Little Miss Josie :D:

    Hehe, this is cute, [: well, i think he’s just nervous, i mean your only in 6th grade, and he probably won’t kiss you until you’re a little older, hehe i’m sorry honey.

    I hope that helped!!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkHlilzk5dbj5HO9Wl.RhaDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080828144242AAHfqHy
    Answer Mine Please^^
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  • pimpin:

    i never kissed a girl till 9th grade
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  • Wray G:

    oh goodness, you are a bit young. But if you really want to kiss him then you have to kiss him first. don’t wait for him to make the move. But once again you are in 6th grade, cool down, or you won’t have fun when your older.
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  • Bob The Radio:

    woah three years!

    its a bit early for you two do be doing kinky stuff but try getting him horny by touching his leg or something, youve been togerther for three years so get him exctied a bit.

    if that doesn’t work then tell him that you want to kiss. you’ve been together for three years so its gonna happen sometime.

    goodluck
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  • Isaiah M:

    WHAT youv ben dating since 3rd grade thats sooo dumb its not about kissing its about getting to know the person and hopefully marry him/her. 6th grade is way to early for a kiss. in my oppinion
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  • nobody...:

    you gotta act REALY attached to him, and you have to act like you realy want to, or else he’s not gonna make a move on u unless you make it sooo obvios that he’s gonna know that. Guys dont like screwing up on something like this…
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    ME (a male)

  • Tyler C:

    well I’m in 6th too and i say go kiss him and if he breaks up wit u than he is not mature
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  • baaby.mitchh:

    wow , i had my first kiss in gr . 6 :)
    lmaoo , it could that he might not be ready . my choice
    is to just talk to him .

    sorry if this isnt help .
    Add me on yahoo if you like ;)
    id like to chat

    AND no , i am not like a stalker or stranger .
    no stranger danger .
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  • kate.8293:

    You are too young! He probably isn’t ready. Why don’t you just talk to him about it if you really want him to kiss you or just kiss him.
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  • valerie:

    Really I’m in 7th dont do it he has a reason, and you guys are too young to be kissing, going out is ok but trust me i know i have a bf for 1 year & we ha vent kissed so dont do it! It can lead you to bad steps and you might not even notice! ;]
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  • robbinsgirl:

    You are too young to be getting your boyfriend in "the mood." Just being honest. Wait a few years until you find a boy that wants to kiss you.
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  • titchyrickets:

    make sure you are both in a comfortable place and relaxed you should bring up the topic of kissing and ask him what kind of kising he prefers most. maybe he has never kssed a gorl before so he could be worried that he will get it "wrong" but there is no rulebook for kissing and no way is wrong. you may have to be brave here and make the first move just move in slowly give him a gentle kiss on the lips and try slowly rubbing your tongue against his lips he if he feels comfortable wih this then he will respond with his tongue but don’t be woried if he pulls away maybe he might just be a little nervous at first but make sure you comliment him on how great a kisser he is! good luck babe!
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  • Nayeli R:

    Yeah, sometimes you just have to go for it.

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  • Sweetness11:

    u had a bf when u were in the 4th grade? he’s not ready to kiss yet! wait a couple more years like some of my friends did, girls mature quicker then boys do. and if you’ve been together this long you could still wait a little longer for ur first kiss. it takes patience! i know it’s tough, but it’s worth the wait! it turns out to be a totally magical moment.
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  • I am in the third grade and there is this really hot guy he is my boyfriend. And to make it official we have to have a first kiss! But how do I do it without anyone noticing?? And heres my way to do it were gonna play truth or dare I’m hoping he’ll say dare… and i’m gonna dare him to kiss me!!

    Thanks

  • Sugarbaby14:

    Honey, you’re young, so don’t be in such a hurry. trust me. i had the same issue you do…only i didn’t date for three years. but i did want a certain someone to kiss me. it’s been three years since then, and i still haven’t had my first kiss, and to be honest, i’m glad i waited. don’t hurry dear. you won’t regret it.

    But, i can’t tell you what to do, so if you really want him to kiss you, you take charge, but when you’re actually kissing, let him lead. it always shows you want him to kiss you, but even if you move first, he can still lead. :) it makes him feel important. ha ha.

    • pleaseeeeeeee help im so conflicted i like this boy im in the forurth grade and he dosn`t want to go to dance withme and he turned me down and he stares at me almost every time he gets does he like me or not pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee helllllllllllllllppppppppppppp mmmmmmmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • sweetgirl88:

    I am only in 4th right now and I have a bf but I have not kissed him yet. But I do have to kiss him soon cuz theres another boy in my class that likes me and is gonna kiss me! HELP! On the other hand you are in 6th so do whatever you think is right.

    • Anni:

      hi,
      I am in 3rd grade and I have a bf. Just go somewhere private, act scared, he will comfort you, then ask him to wrap his arms around u,
      then kiss him on the mouth. OH, and close your eyes. Kiss whoever think you love best. On the other hand, I have 1 boy that tried to kiss me on the mouth but failed. HEHE

      Hope I helped!
      Anni

    • IM IN FOURTH GRADE NOT SIXTH

  • zach:

    well i am in 6th too however i is a boy and i wanna kiss my girl but im nervous if you read this pleease send me some tips

    chickentender@windstream.net
    thx!

    • Anni:

      I wanna kiss my boy, GO somewhere private, summon all your courage,
      wrap your arms around your girl, if she is scared,comfort her.
      THEN PUT YOUR MOUTH ON THE GIRL. hold it long. it is ur first kiss, so hold it long. My boy comforted me when I was nervous. I held the kiss long, so did my boy.

      Good luck, man!
      Anni

  • zach:

    me again! us guys like 2 be kissed b4 we kiss our gf 4 da 1st time

    chickentender@windstream.net

    • Harley:

      Um not all guys like 2 b kissed b4 they kiss there gf…Alot of girls i know dont want 2 make the 1st move, so they wait till the guys kisses them

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  • pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee helpimin the fourth grade and im ready for my first kiss and first boyfrend im so embarssed he also myu frends said she don`t likeu sheluv u in front of him he laughed with his hands over his mouth helpp how do i know if he loves me back???????? please leave comentsssssssssssssssssssss
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    I NEED THIS IM REAL THIRSTY FOR HIM IM ONLY IN FOURTH GRADE AND I THINK HE LIKES ME HOW DO I GET HIM TO KISS ME WITH OUT MY PARENTS GETTING ME N TROUBLE AND THE WATCHE3RS AT RECESS HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW SCARED AND ANNOYED :( THIS SUCKS PLEASE GIVE,ME ANY ADVICEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

    • Brookylady:

      ok girlie well im an expert at hiding from the teachers at recess to kiss my boyfriend. im in 6th grade now (were stuck in elementary cuz our high school is over loaded) and on friday my boyfriend is supposed yo kiss me and on our main playground there is like this grey climbing wall thing so if you just hide behind something out of their sites u can kiss him there but when i was dating one of my bfs we lived in the same neighborhood so we didnt have to do that

  • lovible:

    really sweetie i am in 6th grade i know how you feel honey you just want to have that first kiss trust me to be exzaced and not give wrong advice i had my first kiss about well a week ago i love the person i am with but does he love you is the qustion? if he does. he will move closer and closer to you and then grab your hand and they somtimes will not go farthere then grabbing your hand so porhapes if you are a bus and he is a bus go were the busses meet my busses meet in the caffiteria is that were yours meet? if so look at him in the eyes at the right momment then say kiss me and if they say something and repeat what you said like if they say back kiss you then swoolow welll then 24/7 he will i loved my first kissed it has that migic touch with butterflys then ever time u kiss a guy it will feel diffrent hunny trust me i have been there like i said and the buss stop thing that i told u that is not what happend to me mine happend at my first dance there were 6 couples out on the floor and i was one hunney that wa sthe most amanzinest thing in the world maybe your will happend like that but the part is i asked him to kiss me and he swallowed then said kiss u and then swoollowed again then i said yes and he leand foreward and kisssed me and now we kiss all the time and hug and hold hands i love him and just message me please and let me know how it goes my email is madison1999lovesandrew@yahoo.com

  • Tristian:

    I’m not gonoa lie to ya. all these people telling you ur to young and to cool off and to just grab hi and kiss him, thats all insane. Shut up people that are being discouraging my first kiss was in kidergarden. Beat that. Ive had 3 diffrent girlfriends in three diffrent schools. I know what I’m talking about. Just say kiss me. Or when yu guys are alone kiss him. Look i’m inbaresed to kiss in public ok. So chances are he will want to do it in private. Mambey just after a dance, or a movie, ust do it in private. And don’t force yourself apon him, amagine him doing that to you. So all im saying is don’t get incouraged by all these itiots that know nothing about romance.

  • misheru:

    I know what you mean, and want. My boyfriend wants to kiss, but he waits for me to kiss him and I want him to kiss me first. My advice is to just talk to him about it and if he looks uncomfortable, drop the subject. He probably isn’t ready to kiss. Sorry if that didn’t help. I’m in 7th grade and I’ve been dating my bf for 3 months, and he isn’t afraid to talk about kissing, but I’m still unsure. Good luck!!

  • Lauren:

    keep him attracted to ur lips. That will make him think about kissing.

  • sarah.blovesandrew.j:

    hey……i am in 8th grade……….sometimes what helps is if u r going to a party to do it there……get him thinking about it be like “hey do u wanna kiss at the party”? and that will get him thinking about it……then while at the party…..pull him aside (make sure it is private) pull him aside and kiss him…….it works…..i did it!!! and my first kiss was great!!!!!!!! it was so great that he is still begging me for more!!

  • ihaveacrush:

    i no how u feel im in sixth grade my boy friend and i went out 4 3 years except we kissed @ the movies. it felt good then he broke up with me :-[

  • maxine:

    i’m in fifth grade but the one I love said that he would date me but i’m afraid to kiss him he make me soooooooooooo nervous! So listen I’ve made up my mind! If he really loves then he’ll kiss me first the girl should never ever have to be the one to kiss him unless because when you just kiss him. He’ll think your gross and a slut he’ll leave you and go out with someone else trust me I know from experince! So wait boys are idoits and need sometime they don’t understand that girls don’t have coodies and they think having a girlfriend is for fun and to show off! You want a man who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him,who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. The boy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world. Who thinks you’re pretty without makeup on. The one who is constanly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you! Hope I help you, I’ll pray for you that it works out!

  • And shut the hell up about kissy kissy bla bla ba blah

  • buttercup:

    wow!! u’ve been dating for 3 hole years well seens ur in the 4 grade hold on wait until ur in the 6 grade if he ist ready just say find and wait until he is good./ just kiss him/her in 1/2 weeks and just give him a pick on the lip heal go 4 more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Bree Bree:

    I love my boyfriend but he getting kinda mad cuz we haven’t kissed yet we’ve been going out for 2 years we are in 5th grade well I’m gonna kiss him but I don’t know how can you please tell me b4 Friday at 7 we gonna go to the dance together and I plan to do it there

    Btw his name is hay den fatheree

  • christina:

    hey u having a prob not to be a party pooper but ur too old my sis is in the same grade and i really think ur too young so how about u wait at least till 7th grade? it will be easier by then and all u have to is flirt with him for a really long time n go in dark places with him n i assure u it will happen soon k lot of <3 tina peace :)

  • JamesOrZebra:

    hi im jamie and a tomboy. and in the sixth grade. i have a boyfriend and whenever im around him i feel shy. well i just wanted to know how am I going to kiss him at school with all these people watching. ill get BANNED from school. ireally want to kiss him but i could never ever ask him to kiss me. that would be impossible. he would tell his friend who is a gossip. on the first day we went out he told every body even my sub teacher. omg i was soooo im embarassed

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