How can I get my boyfriend hard when making out but not having to touch him "down there"?

Posted in How to get boyfriend back by Admin on January 1, 2010 74 Comments

Im going to the movies this friday with my boyfriend.
And I want to get him hard(or horny)
How can I touch him to get him that way?

I dont wanna touch him "down there" because he will get the wrong idea that I want to have sex with him.
Any ideas?

Press your body against him when you hug him. Body warmth creates a natural stimulation that will arouse him. Guide his hands to your hips, that femine curve is irresistible.

If he doesnt get aroused by feeling your body against him he’s gay.

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  • anonymous:

    feel up his chest slowly and kinda touch his niples.
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  • ALEX:

    Get as close to "down there" as possible without actually touching "down there" and that will get him hard as a rock.

    And don’t touch his nipples. That’s just weird, at least in my opinion.
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  • Ana:

    Kiss him or make out with him tease him by kissing his neck and nibbling on his ear
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  • Nicole B:

    just kinda rub the back of his hair with one finger and feel up his chest and sorta go crazy on his face
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  • danceslikeaistra:

    Ears! Kiss his ears and neck – the nerve endings there are CRAZY and most guys LOVE that. Also run your fingers down his spine, that does it too. :)
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  • BigAl:

    How will you know that he’s hard if you don’t touch him ‘down there’? And why do you want to get him hard if you don’t want to have sex with him? If you get him hard, the little head will start doing the thinking for the big head, and the little head don’t get the ‘wrong’ idea…it only gets ONE idea.
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  • Lucas:

    Touch his feet
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  • Kaitlin:

    Kiss his neck, his ears, but don’t be too forceful
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    • Abi:

      Guys get so horny when you stand in front of them and then stop, thn put their hands on your waist and he will go crazy and get so horny.

  • ScottArmstrongScrewedUndertaker!:

    Big Al is 100% right. So, to just add to what he said, YOU HAD BETTER SUCK HIS DICK or you’re just being a bitch.
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  • kammy:

    bigAI is soo right,lol
    stop playing games..this is why some girls complain that their bfs force them to sex.
    if you dont wanna get burnt stop playing with fire
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  • Chris B:

    Press your body against him when you hug him. Body warmth creates a natural stimulation that will arouse him. Guide his hands to your hips, that femine curve is irresistible.

    If he doesnt get aroused by feeling your body against him he’s gay.
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  • Cheryl:

    You’re disgusting…
    Not to mention cruel, mean and well… stupid.
    When you finally do _uck him… please use condoms because you definitely don’t need to be having any kids.
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  • lizzie♪:

    Start by kissing his ear then go down to the neck, then start to use you tongue on your kisses. Try it, he will like it…
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  • ways i get my boyfriend hard is lick his neck or nible on his ear or gently scratch his back or give him a hand job they work trust me or talk dirty to him mine loves that

  • ♥Niickii♥:

    what would be the poiint iin gettiin hiim hard iif u don’t wanna go all the way wiiv hiim

  • arun:

    hold him tight…nd hug him so dat u can feel his “down part”

  • matthew ball:

    i like it wen a girl picks my spots. it makes me so hard.

  • destiny:

    both of the guys are right stop being a bitc_ and just _uck him…… but plz use a condom.

  • Jesssica:

    to really make him hard just kiss him on the ears and nibble lightly while you just as lightly rub on his nipples but discretely and lead his hands down on your hips or thighs and moan a little or playfully giggle or both.

  • Alice:

    Hey. I gt a bf n i gt to so. IF YOU AINT GONNA HAVE SEX Y MAKE HIM HARD? Its not rite. i mean i do it every now and then, but shit!! sooner or later the guy will dump u cuz of it. take it from some one who knows…. And no i am not a slut. i just lyk to _uck my man alot. sometimes twice a day

  • ShAnNoN...:

    Well wot i do is when im kissing that someone special and want to get him hard, i have one arm around his neck and one on his chest.When you hug him put both arms around his neck giving you room to being able to kiss him down his neck ….. this usually gets him hard

    Good Luck x

  • Haley:

    Well you shouldhug him tightly and hold his hand while you kiss him What gets mi bf going is when i i lick him on his neck so try it have fun and dont go all the way

  • Justice:

    Definitely kisses on the neck and “walk” your fingers down his chest. And depending on the sensitivity of his nipples, you can play with them. Be as much as a tease as possible in public. It will make him sexually frustrated. When guys are sexually frustrated it makes for WAY better s** But then you have to F*** because he will dump you if your just being a c***tease and nothing else is goin down.

  • My boyfriend gets hard whenever he touches me really. But if that doesnt work i nibble his ear while he feels my body and kisses my neck. The way i determine if he is hard or not is i hold him close so i can feel “down there” with my body.

  • yana:

    I love to make out with my boyfriend… And i awlays rub slowly his neck or i kiss it and i want to touch my bf there but how…should i rub it slowly or just put my hand on it and then move it slowly…and when we make out how can i get close enough so that i can feel his… With my down part???

    • nicole:

      put your hands round his neck then french kiss him a bit of tensile tennis and slowly put ur leg over him and sit on his lap

    • nicole:

      put your hands round his neck then french kiss him a bit of tensile tennis and slowly put ur leg over him and sit on his lap

  • Girl:

    I WANT 2 MAKE HIM HARD AND IM 11

    • a girl you dont know:

      ya im 13 and stuff and i whant to get my bf hard but hes one of those prepy ppl and idk what to do SOME ONE HELP

    • That girl:

      my boyfriend gets hard easy haha i just make out with him and rub my body up on him and rub my place on his and he is GONE haha and im only 15 ;) work well!

  • Emogirl:

    Me and my boy are teenagers. I can never tell if he is hard or not and like you i dont want to start rubbing his cock or anything ( i want to but that would make him f*** me lol) but i always hug him real close and kinda rub my waist against his and run my fingers through his hair, also while french kissinh moaning makes him excited. You can always tickle him or stroke his spine. I know that will work hope this helps!! And someone message me about how to tell if a boys good and hard! And what drives boys nuts? Message me at littlewestbrook@gmail.com

  • Lilly:

    Mine gets Hard whenevaaa he fingers mee…… He also gets Hard if I push my body close to his, and moan a litte…. He gets really hard when I breeth heavy-er

  • hunny:

    hug him, kiss him, put your head on his chest… while doing all that get you hand as colse to “that spot” as possible…. good luck

  • katie:

    lol (GIRL) ur 11 n u wanna get him hard….me n u would be best freinds but im npt 11 im 14 lol so yeah good luck

  • Hold his hand to let him kno and if there are other boys around or his friends he will hold ur hand to let them kno ur his don’t pull way my bf does it to me! I’m 11 and we rode our horses together also if u wanna make him horny but not the idea of seeeeeëx hold him close and stay close! My bf always gets horny and guys 1 of the best girl weakspots is the outside of the led ribb it!!!! It works my bf made me go beserk and just sooooo horny!!!

  • randomchic:

    i can understand that u want to make ur bf hard and still not have sex. i am the same with my bf. i love makin him hard just cuz i know it means he’s attracted to me. tho he knows i do not want to have sex i am very clear with him on that and he’s ok with it. so before u make ur boyfriend hard be sure he knows u dont want sex. and honestly there are a ton of ways to make a guy hard but i think the best way is while your in the middle of a makeout gentle grasp ‘down there’ or let him feel you up or even both. but depending how easily he gets hard u can just kiss his neck or rub his chest and he may get hard.

  • That girl:

    my boyfriend gets hard easy haha i just make out with him and rub my body up on him and rub my place on his and he is GONE haha and im only 15 work well!

    GOOD LUCK :) he’ll die bcuz he wants to _uck you soo bad but u dont let him ;) LOVE IT!!

  • Melissa:

    how to make your boyfriend horney if your only 12 and 11?

  • lilly:

    no offence but you shouldent make him hard because then he will want to lay you !!! dont make him hard just tease him.

  • secrete:

    some of these people jus touch everywhere except down there press up against him when u feel lik its a gud timin ……………..u wont b a bitch and u dnt hav ta suck it…try rubbing the inside of his thigh wi ur knee wen kissing tha got my bf hard..

  • hunny bunny:

    Why would you tease your man in that way if you dont want to go all the way you shouldnt open up the idea to him

  • andre:

    you know what i wish i was your boyfriend. the only prooblem is you dont want to have sex and dont want totouch down there. and im 14 i want some.

  • Luz:

    Touch him all over, thighs, legs, feet, kiss him all over, kiss his feet, whisper sweet things to him, look him deeply in his eyes. tell him you want him inside you so bad. talk dirty to him. :)

  • Nena:

    @ katie, im 13 and like can’t wait till im old enough, memories omg lol..
    the fun we would have..

  • Kansan:

    How do you get him hard if you never got him hard before ??? :(

  • gothicspice86:

    Really, if your not going to have sex I’d advise you not to get him hard. I agree with Al and also speak from experience.

  • Tink:

    Play with it like a bopit

  • yeah, im a 14 yr old guy… girl and i would get along pretty good ;] anyway, my girl gets me hrd by kissing me and rubbing her “spot” against mine… is nice. and just because a guy is hrd doesnt mean he will fck u! we’re not all bad

  • Mad:

    Look some ppl here are right y do tht if ur not gunna have sex with him but i recomend this get close to him one hand on his neck so u can mess with his hair the other on his chest and kiss him while messing with his hair then idk hiss his neck and nibble his ear i guess

  • anothorrandomchic:

    i am 13 my boyfriend is 14 i want to make him hard so thank ALL OF U !!

  • Megan:

    Rub up agaist him touch his chest sort of guide him down to your boobs and then bring his hand down to your !!! Then start kissing himand touch his chest. Do not do this a the movies!!!!!!!! Go for it. I don’t think he will touch your @@@ first so I would concentrate on getting him to touch your boobs

  • Zenia:

    I am 14 and my guy too . He asked me for a handjob on chat and maybe didn’t have the guts to talk abt it face to face :P
    Talked to my friends abt it..& they’re like I am to young still
    Buh I am pretty sure he really wants one ! Is it the right time yet ? Am I too young or something ? Please Help :)

    • Tiff:

      @Zenia im not a virgin im 2 months away form being 15 go for it just be careful. it leads to a lot of shit, Use a condom if you guys have sex. i dont and it came close one day. BE CAREFUL.

  • Lexx:

    Bite his lip softly when making out. Lol my bf loves it & let him touch you but you CAN have limits just let him know

  • rose:

    I normally just suck his dick. which causes me to gag because its big which gets him hard.

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