Help me get my boyfriend back!!!?
We broke up a little over a week ago, and I screwed things up afterward which caused him to lose all respect for me and not trust me at all anymore. He says he doesn’t ever want to date me again, but we’ve broken up multiple times before and always gotten back together. I need some help on how to get him back… anything. If anyone has anything that has worked on you or your significant other, please let me know. I need to get him back… he’s my everything. I have no doubt in my mind that he’s the one, I just need to win him back. HELP! =\
Firstly… who are you calling a coward?
And I get what you’re all saying about giving him time and space and all that… but I feel like this is more than just that. He doesn’t believe that he’s the only one for me. He doesn’t believe anything. In some way, I wish I could prove to him that I mean that. Idk… we were together for over 2 years, and I guess I just can’t accept the fact that maybe he really is done w/me… w/us…
give him time to cool off. Don’t be pushy just let him know how you feel now and that you’ll give him some space. If he feels you moving on he’ll either realize you’re meant to be together and get you back, or you really will get over it and move on. Either way you just need to back off or it will just push him away.
If he doesn’t respect or trust you you are not going to get him back
coward…
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TELL HIM YOU’RE PREGNANT
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7AdiHoAh34
This video helped me so much, I was just in the same predicament. Hope it helps you as much as it helped me. <3 Good luck!
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My brain!
give him space & time.
dont nag and talk to him.
be confident & independent & that your fine without him.
he will realise.
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well if you guys are constantly breaking up, then you should just end it before it gets worse. dont try getting him back. and if you really want to get back together with him, give him some time to calm down. dont keep asking him to take you back. that’ll only make problems worse. wait a while then talk to him about it.
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give him time to cool off. Don’t be pushy just let him know how you feel now and that you’ll give him some space. If he feels you moving on he’ll either realize you’re meant to be together and get you back, or you really will get over it and move on. Either way you just need to back off or it will just push him away.
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Well, without explaining exactly what it is that you did, its hard to say what the proper course of action would be.
I would say, depending on the level you may have upset him, there simply may be no chance he’ll ever want you back.
But, you do have to try.
So, I’d send him a long letter or email telling him exactly why you like him and want him and sincerely apologizing for whatever it is you did. Be frank and honest and tell him how you feel.
Also, mention if he wants to meet with you to talk things over, that you’d meet him wherever he wants.
Be sincere and tell him you’ll do your best and what he means to you. But, if he does take you back, then be sure to never let this happen again and remember what you wrote when you said, "I have no doubt in my mind that he’s the one."
Good luck.
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How old are you?
And you sound really Obsessed.
He isnt your life. Just a Boy who you ‘like’.
If you screwed up, You screwed up. MOVE ON.
Kay:]
♥Ella.
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Try not contacting him anymore, like for a couple of months or like that (i know its hard) but you know what? just like you he is also thinking about you in his heart and mind.. after like a couple of months, send him an email asking "how are you" just ask how are u doing that’s it.. nothing more.. he will reply back, and after that keep writing emails till you feel now is the right time to ask him to meet you up .. it will work.. this method needs a lot of patience, but worry not cos u will learn a lot, discover and understand more better.
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all you need to do is to prove him that he can trust you. it might be hard at first but it will work
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Nothing is going to work that has worked with other people. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. Plus if you think of a way on your own to try & win him back, thats more romantic than asking people ya dont know. Think about it.
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Well, these situations are really tough to patch up. Being a guy I can probably relate to him. Ive also lost respect for girls. The only thing I can see that you can do is to take the mature route. You understand you made a mistake, thats good…so tell him that now. Don’t spit some words that are generic or cliche or like in the movies…Just say what you feel and don’t do it in a way that doesn’t seem like your desperate. That is a big turnoff not only guys, but to everybody. Say what you want to say and leave it at that. Give him a couple days to think about it, and he doesn’t respond to you, then you have to take the mature route and move one. Just another lesson of life you’ll have to take into consideration.
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