i really like my ex again and i want her back but she says i have to prove i really luv her. how should i ?

prove it

My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago as he is very depressed and on medication and couldn’t handle a relationship. I haven’t contacted him, but really want to send him a card to let him know I am thinking of him and hope he is getting better. Do you think this is a good idea, and if so, how should I word the card? I really would like him to take me back but won’t rush him. Many thanks for your help.

If he can’t handle a relationship at the moment then try and not show too much love but let him know that you care. Give him time to think and he’ll realize for himself the mistake of letting you go.
Simply tell him that no matter what you’ll be there for him. Tell him that you hope all is well and that you care for him and always will. Try to not to say too much. It might draw him back. He’ll miss you Hope it turns out well

He’s not the kind of guy to come back because he’s jealous. If he gets too jealous he’ll give up. He also isn’t much of the guy to make the first move or initiate anything.
So how much space and how much time do i give him? What do i do after that?

You definitely cant make him jealous if he will just give up. If you want to stir him a little to get him to start making more effort to chase you I will tell you what I did. This may seem odd but when my wife left me I was devastated. My better half was gone. I went to psychics and then I tried casting several love spells. Nothing was working and I was growing into a deeper depression by the day. Then I read about a witch in the paper who helped some guy win the lottery. I immediately contacted her and she did a return lover spell for me. It actually worked and my wife came back shortly after that. My world was restored and we are back together and happy. If you really want this guy back then I would recommend going to the same witch that I did. I used http://www.witchcraft-magic-spells.com

How do I get my ex back when he likes another girl right now but we never ended out relationship?? Currently, he likes another girl but they never said or look like they are going out, they just flirted with each other and we never ended or talked about our relationship. We never talked to each other and he ignored me most of the time, but I want him back!!! What can I do??

well i think that you should let him go. if this other girl is what he wants then let him be, you want him to be happy right…sometimes you have to let them go in order to make that happen. if you truly like him then you will do this for him and let him be with this other person!

If they wanted a relationship with this person , why did they break it off in the first place? Then they come in here and ask how do i get them back? Why? It is going to end up the same way again. If you put your hand on a hot burner on the stove it is going to burn you , no matter how many ways you try not to get burned you are always going to . Same way with a relationship , once the trust and love is gone , it is gone , Nothing anyone can do or say to get that spark back it is over an done and time to bury the bones .

time does heal most wounds, and once the anger is over with, and it didn’t work out with the new love, they often want what they had back because it wasn’t greener on the other side of the fence.just depends on how the breakup happened and how badly one was hurt emotionally. but i think if u loved someone once that u could love them again.

I want to get my ex back I was real stupid I cheated on her and I am very sorry I tried flowers cards called left messages I done all I can do she still does not want anything to do with me btw I cheated with her sister anyways please do not bash me I just want to get together with my girlfriend again any ideas I am all ears.

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I recently told my ex how i felt about him and that i made a mistake, ive never told a guy anything like this before in my life. Then i should we should try it again. He said what about what (my ex best friend told him) , and i asked what was that he said that i was with more then one guy at once. WHich is not true especially because he’s the only guy i want. I told him that it wasnt true and he said we could hang out sometime. but the thing is i dont just want t hang out. i want him back.but i dont know what to do.

hanging out would be a step in the right direction maybe he needs time to see he can trust you

No more games! I want my ex back! How do I do this when he is living with another gf! We have been texting each other and staying in contact with each other ever since the breakup – but now no more games -help and tell me how to get him back!!!

Yikes! That sucks. Hang in there though, all is not lost (yet).

Here are some things that many women do that blow their chances with their ex, and how to avoid them.

First, sharing your feelings with him too early or too much. Men love their freedom and independence ­ no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the some stages of dating should always remain casual.

Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love is a process that happens outside the conscious mind ­ remember that. Which brings me to…

Second, trying to push it too far too soon.It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a fling?” But remember, if you start pushing commitment, you could ruin your chances to take things further.

Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of commitment; but just because they don’t want it now, doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They just need time.

Third, being too available.You might think this is playing a mind game or
being manipulative, but putting your best side forward is also manipulative.

Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome. This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the man and continue to be that person, rather than use tricks.

Remember that your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for him, no matter how much you like him. And remember, men love a
challenge, so this actually works in your favor.

Fourth, not being yourself. Men love confident women with a strong sense of
self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess how the man wants them to act and try to accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room
for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do this too.) In other words, they love her strength. It’s very attractive.

Fifth, appealing to his sexual side too much. Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair, pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men, not into a successful long-term relationships anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that seems to get an instant response from men, long-term success comes with finding a man who admires and respects you regardless of your exterior. If your man only likes you for your looks, then he doesn’t really love you.

So there you have it. Some big mistakes that women make while they’re dating men. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of succeeding with him.

It’s just that I want other opinions, because they market this stuff to seem like its a sure fire way to get her back. Smoke and mirrors or do you have experiences that can help better than their advice does. Looking for honest answers please. (Do a Google search on "How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back? …Number one relationship killer) and let me know what you think.

make them jealous that’s the best way

How did you get your ex back after they dumped you for their freedom or something like that? I just want to read real stories, not advice. Thanks!

Make sure you stay in their life after you break up. Be friends with them immediately after, show your caring and all the good things about yourself. This will not allow them to get over you and eventually they’ll get back with you.
This wasn’t possible in my recent break up, being the dumpee i couldn’t be friends with him right away. But it did work for my friend

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